Tag: lifestyle
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Guilty Goodbye
Trust me, I really wanted the booty call. I enjoyed my time with Lilly a lot! We connected strongly and I do not want to hurt her, but I do know I will miss her too. Majority of my woman I have this connection with, and it also stirs up feelings. And I worry about…
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No mind control here
So how has things changed. Well for one is that I am not worried as much about it. Of course I still have that little voice in the back of my head asking if it is hard? Will it get hard? And will it stay hard? This will never go away as much as I…
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Do Not Disturb please?
I quickly grab my pass card and head to the lobby. Nervous, excited and curious has me walking at a brisk pace. Once I get down to the lobby I see a short woman on her phone looking away from me. I figure it is her since no one else is there. “Lilly,” I question…
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Still learning the ropes and no not those kind
Dating when you are single is so much simpler. If you do something it only affects you, and potentially your partner. When you enter the lifestyle, the major difference is that you have to think for yourself along with your partner. Now add another level which is more couples and you can see how it…
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Dr Sweets in the house
This has also carried over into my personal life, more on the relationships that I have built. Each new girl that I meet seems to have something that they want to talk about. What they don’t know is that I am extremely good at getting people to talk about anything!
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Balance, it is not that easy
This year will be an interesting one. Hopefully with change. Personally I am looking to move out of my role, along with trying to find my wife a new job. Both have taken a toll since it has been an up hill battle, with one step forward and about five back. Along with that I am…
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All nice guys…
Recently it was stated to me that “All than nice guys must be polygamous.” I paused for a second and thought about that statement. The lifestyle commands respect, since everyone is there to have fun with no pressure and drama.
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Intimacy
Many people don’t understand the lifestyle, or at least find it hard to grasp. The main hangup is the sex act. How can you fuck someone else and not love them? Or how can you let your spouse go and fuck someone else, don’t you love them? I think what everyone is working through is…
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Culture Shock
What I have seen in the past few months, and over the couple of years swinging, is that different cultures have different opinions on relationships. When we first started swinging we ran into our first couple that appeared to have the culture impact the dynamics.
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NYE and the cumming year
Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…