Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • Age is just a number, I think

    The author reflects on their health journey, emphasizing challenges faced after an emergency appendicitis and subsequent COVID infection. They have quit smoking and are focusing on improving their fitness. Acknowledging age-related changes, they seek to support their partner while cultivating self-improvement and understanding the importance of mental health for 2025.

  • 2023 and post Covid

    It has been a long time since I have posted something new. Well new in the sense on what has transpired over the past few years. Well more like 4 years based on some of my postings. Lot of things have changed, and some are the same. The biggest change is relationships and who I…

  • boost – prologue

    Few minutes passes and she puts her phone away and gets out.  “Sorry about that, just had to check in with babysitter.” “No problem, I checked in to so all good on my end as well.” Walking together we become quiet, almost like we are unsure on what to say or do.  I open the…

  • Limitless Age

    Few weeks back there was a lot of chatter on twitter about age. It started with a post by a man that stated that any women over 35 is not hot or attractive. No surprise there was an uproar. The post that started it had over 500 replies before the owner removed it. Unfortunately not…

  • By Proxy

    During the kinky camp weekend it was pointed out on what I am.  I have been vocal that I am not kinky.  Well not in the sense on what the women in my life want.  I am verbal and dominating in that sense, but that as far as it goes.

  • Kinky Camp

    What had me fascinated is the roles that are on display 24/7.  Clubs have a limited time to expose the D/S relationships and the different dynamics. 

  • Focus and direction

    Although I have to be in the mood which I am still struggling with. It is a hard thing to balance with the stress being so high. Work is not going away or the stress so I need to balance it better.

  • A stab at Definitions

    Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.

  • Bring on 2018

    The past year has been somewhat of a challenge for me. Primarily on the social aspect since work has consumed my life. The amount of hours worked the last half of the year has earned me high praise from my upper management, but at the cost of no life. I barely have any time for…

  • You AREN’T what you read!

    Having a chat with a few guys at work and some how spam mail came up. As we talked I stated if I was to believe everything that I was sent then I would be a messed up guy. With that I thought it would be a good post just to see how screwed up…