Tag: lifestyle

  • Boost – Part 2

    The internal struggle is visible on her face. Wanting to proceed and also horrified that some woman would let her man out to have sex with another woman. The battle seem to play out on her face for only a few seconds. She took a deep breath and then put her coffee down as well.…

  • Reflection of four different needs

    Reflection of four different needs

    Our quad has settled into a relationship that has become more like married. It has almost been two years since we met and things have evolved dramatically. This past year has been an eye opener for all of us. Needs and desires for each person is different. Nothing wrong with that at all unless they…

  • Weekend has been a blur

    My wife’s vanilla gf was over this weekend, which was exciting.  She knows about our lifestyle and I enjoy seeing how far I can push the context of sex.  She is a bit of a prude so it is fun to see reactions from her.  Although I didn’t have much time visit on Saturday evening…

  • Highway Sex

    Distance has been my major nemesis of late.  Well distance is always a problem to be fair.  Our quad is separated by 500 km (310 miles) so our visits are scheduled in advance.  Sometimes months in advance.  Add in family functions, birthdays, and other events and you can see that weekends become few and far…

  • Directions to sex

    PREFACE This based loosely on real events. I have changed any names or places to protect the people who are in this story. This contains sexually explicit content so please stop reading if you are under the appropriate age for where you live.  For those of you who are old enough enjoy!!! Please like, share and reblog…

  • Meet and Greet Dash

    Meet and Greet Dash

    Our first time meeting as a couple swinging for a meet and greet didn’t go as planned. Communication is so important in the lifestyle and assumptions were made.

  • Scream from the roof tops

    So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty.  Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched.  Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉  Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…

  • Take her for test drive?

    At a long time friends house this weekend to see there new place.  Vanilla parties, as I have mentioned in the past is not as much fun but it does have some advantages. Mainly new blood, or potential new blood.  Lately I have been looking at couples and wonder “do you play?” 

  • Rules are there to Rule the couple

    Rules are there to Rule the couple

    Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…

  • Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood

    Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood

    This lifestyle will challenge most men in one specific area.  This is because as a man that is one thing that always worked without thought.  And when it decides to disappear and not perform it can be a big shock to the man.  It also makes the man embarrassed, since the woman expect it to…