Tag: communication
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8 degrees of FWB
Since I started my blog I have done some topics that were brought up by other friends. Primarily related to the lifestyle have been some of those. My hope is that with me exposing the topic and working through what my thoughts about it are might allow the readers to open their mind to the thought.…
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Monday Reality
Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend. I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up. The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self. My wife was almost…
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Surprised to silence
My mind has been in over drive of late. With my birthday weekend having so many ups and downs and work not helping I have been kind of numb. Going through the motions. Work sleep and work again. Jane has been my rock through this. More so then I knew. Along with my poly wife…
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Escape – Female point of view of Do Not Disturb
After Greg posted his story about our time together, I read it over and over (Do not Disturb and Guilty Goodbye). Not just for the sensuality of the experiences, although they were fun; but because, as the months pass, my memories start to fade. And my encounter with him was a bit of a turning point for…
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To my wives…
This is the follow up to the Guilty Goodbye, since I made one critical mistake. When I arranged to meet Lilly on the Friday before I went home, I didn’t advise either of my wives of the rendezvous. We have an open relationship and tell each other everything. I left this detail out, and even…
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Guilty Goodbye
Trust me, I really wanted the booty call. I enjoyed my time with Lilly a lot! We connected strongly and I do not want to hurt her, but I do know I will miss her too. Majority of my woman I have this connection with, and it also stirs up feelings. And I worry about…
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Feeling limitations
For some of you that follow me I have a few fwb. Well if I was to count them up you would be shaking your head. Doesn’t mean I have sex all the time. We are all busy with life, family, work and friends. This is my dilemma of late on balancing the relationships. Of…
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50 Shades of voices
I have read the book and the writing was horrible. After seeing the movie I found I liked it better. Maybe because of the lack of suffering such a badly written book. I couldn’t even continue reading the second (although I am now considering it). I did discover one thing that did surprise me. Control.…
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Do Not Disturb please?
I quickly grab my pass card and head to the lobby. Nervous, excited and curious has me walking at a brisk pace. Once I get down to the lobby I see a short woman on her phone looking away from me. I figure it is her since no one else is there. “Lilly,” I question…
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Still learning the ropes and no not those kind
Dating when you are single is so much simpler. If you do something it only affects you, and potentially your partner. When you enter the lifestyle, the major difference is that you have to think for yourself along with your partner. Now add another level which is more couples and you can see how it…