Tag: communication
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Distance – it’s a bitch
With the couples that we have met over the past few years one thing is in common. Distance is a factor. Now we don’t go out to clubs and meet people. True that can work, but for our selves we don’t work that way. We have used dating sites and of all things twitter. The…
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The good and the bad
The hardest part in the lifestyle is how things evolve. My wife found BDSM with our poly couple. I never would have thought this would be something she is interested in. Nor something I can do myself. Sure I have dabbled when I was younger with control. Voice and maybe holding a girls hands down. …
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Dr Sweets in the house
This has also carried over into my personal life, more on the relationships that I have built. Each new girl that I meet seems to have something that they want to talk about. What they don’t know is that I am extremely good at getting people to talk about anything!
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Boost – Part 5
This is a continuation of my boost erotica fiction. I have no idea on how long this will go for, but for the moment I have a few more stories to write about this. I hope you enjoy.
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Exposing my inner thoughts on the dark side
Unknown to me when I was younger, I was dominate when having sex. I would direct and control the woman with my voice. Fast forward to now and it something that I am struggling with. Not the verbal part, that is coming back in stages since I turned it off when I married my wife.…
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Balance, it is not that easy
This year will be an interesting one. Hopefully with change. Personally I am looking to move out of my role, along with trying to find my wife a new job. Both have taken a toll since it has been an up hill battle, with one step forward and about five back. Along with that I am…
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Respect is expected by the woman
For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man. I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities. This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase. Mostly because…
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Intimacy
Many people don’t understand the lifestyle, or at least find it hard to grasp. The main hangup is the sex act. How can you fuck someone else and not love them? Or how can you let your spouse go and fuck someone else, don’t you love them? I think what everyone is working through is…
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NYE and the cumming year
Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…
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Boost – Part 2
The internal struggle is visible on her face. Wanting to proceed and also horrified that some woman would let her man out to have sex with another woman. The battle seem to play out on her face for only a few seconds. She took a deep breath and then put her coffee down as well.…