Tag: communication
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Reflection of four different needs
Our quad has settled into a relationship that has become more like married. It has almost been two years since we met and things have evolved dramatically. This past year has been an eye opener for all of us. Needs and desires for each person is different. Nothing wrong with that at all unless they…
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Weekend has been a blur
My wife’s vanilla gf was over this weekend, which was exciting. She knows about our lifestyle and I enjoy seeing how far I can push the context of sex. She is a bit of a prude so it is fun to see reactions from her. Although I didn’t have much time visit on Saturday evening…
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Choke surprise
Choking I only do in my jiu jitsu class. I know to perform lots of different types. Rear naked, head in arm, and the famous guillotine to name a few. I would never it do it for pleasure which is why I was caught of guard hearing my wife was choked during sex this past…
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Getaway Weekend
Weekend away with my poly wife allows me to reconnect and have some fun.
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All the same things with a twist
Well I was quiet on Nov 11th for a couple of reasons. One is that it is remembrance day, so I did try to stay off the social media out of respect for our veterans. Plus I was on the hunt for some pussy. It is rare to have the house empty, no kids or…
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The search begins, again…
Since mid summer I have been looking for new blood. Using a couple of sites I thought I would at least have some luck. Not the case, as I found out. So I have created another account on another site. I am not going to divulge which site it is, but to be fair I…
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Out and about for Halloween
The wives have planned to go out to Halloween party for past few months. Even had costumes figured out ahead of time. It was a way for them to express themselves safely. The few times going to the club I have enjoyed myself but I am not comfortable at them. I am not a fan…
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Meet and Greet Dash
Our first time meeting as a couple swinging for a meet and greet didn’t go as planned. Communication is so important in the lifestyle and assumptions were made.
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Scream from the roof tops
So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty. Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched. Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉 Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…
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Rules are there to Rule the couple
Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…