Tag: communication
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Age is just a number, I think
The author reflects on their health journey, emphasizing challenges faced after an emergency appendicitis and subsequent COVID infection. They have quit smoking and are focusing on improving their fitness. Acknowledging age-related changes, they seek to support their partner while cultivating self-improvement and understanding the importance of mental health for 2025.
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2023 and post Covid
It has been a long time since I have posted something new. Well new in the sense on what has transpired over the past few years. Well more like 4 years based on some of my postings. Lot of things have changed, and some are the same. The biggest change is relationships and who I…
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boost – prologue
Few minutes passes and she puts her phone away and gets out. “Sorry about that, just had to check in with babysitter.” “No problem, I checked in to so all good on my end as well.” Walking together we become quiet, almost like we are unsure on what to say or do. I open the…
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A stab at Definitions
Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.
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Bruised and sore
I appreciate this from her relationships. Just sometimes having her home after with sensitive areas can make for some awkward giggly moments.
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Out of arms reach
You can’t chose who you have feelings for. It happens. This is something I have gotten used to over the past few years. The problem is that most women aren’t close by. So when you have a person who is far away and having a tough time I feel powerless. I want to help. Need…
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Little lost
There is always a cycle of ups and downs in our lives. I am going through an extended downward spiral. Not by choice but by circumstance. Maybe because I am burying my grandfather this weekend. Maybe cause I have had majority of my fwb go off the market. Maybe since I haven’t meet anyone new…
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Re-Union with Lilly
Funny how distance can make relationships feel like a new experience after many months. Lily planned to visit with her kids for a Canadian vacation for our second meet up of the year. Knowing that it will be a challenge to have her alone to spend time together since all our kids will be home.…
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Sex talk
Sex is usually talked about behind closed doors. Something that is instilled by our parents when we are young. It is taboo. Shouldn’t be talked about. Heck even TV and movies didn’t show anything since it is so bad for you. Fast forward some years ahead (nice try, birthday is coming up but not going…
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Introductions to my wife
Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends. Most of these women have met my wife. As well I have met majority of their spouses. I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…