Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle
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Do Not Disturb please?
I quickly grab my pass card and head to the lobby. Nervous, excited and curious has me walking at a brisk pace. Once I get down to the lobby I see a short woman on her phone looking away from me. I figure it is her since no one else is there. “Lilly,” I question…
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Still learning the ropes and no not those kind
Dating when you are single is so much simpler. If you do something it only affects you, and potentially your partner. When you enter the lifestyle, the major difference is that you have to think for yourself along with your partner. Now add another level which is more couples and you can see how it…
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Vocal freedom
Funny thing about sex when you are younger. You either had a screamer or a mute. There really was no middle ground that I recall. Plus not really having a private venue didn’t help either. So with that said, there were not very many vocal woman that I knew when I grew up. Thinking about it…
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Distance – it’s a bitch
With the couples that we have met over the past few years one thing is in common. Distance is a factor. Now we don’t go out to clubs and meet people. True that can work, but for our selves we don’t work that way. We have used dating sites and of all things twitter. The…
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The good and the bad
The hardest part in the lifestyle is how things evolve. My wife found BDSM with our poly couple. I never would have thought this would be something she is interested in. Nor something I can do myself. Sure I have dabbled when I was younger with control. Voice and maybe holding a girls hands down. …
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Etre Voyeur a un club
The music hits you like a wave as we came through the doors into the club. Familiar beat but not knowing the song, we make our way up the stairs to register. Once we all register and checked our coats we move to the dance floor were the girls start to shake their asses. Glancing…
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Damn whiskey
I said low key this weekend because of the kids. Well I might have made a miscalculation on that. Seems I lost count on my drinks last night. And then the spins and not walking straight. It was not a long drive to see our quad. No issues and only a few idiots. I think…
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Cumming Weeks
I rarely just talk about my life on here. Ya I know I talk about the sex, couples, fwb and adventures but I don’t actually just talk. Since I have gotten back from Chicago the past few weeks have been very hard on me. Primarily mostly related to work but there other factors as well.…
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BDSM test – how accurate?
I have no idea how this came up, or where the quad found this but there is a test to see how kinky you are. Since they all did it, well I had to see how I fit onto the scale. Surprisingly, there was not really anything to surprising about the results for myself.
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What is a slut?
It is funny how old habits come back to us from our younger days. For the nth time in the past few weeks I have heard the word slut used in conversation. This is something that never bothered me, although male slut is not common to hear. And honestly, I never thought any different of…