Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • Dr Sweets in the house

    This has also carried over into my personal life, more on the relationships that I have built. Each new girl that I meet seems to have something that they want to talk about. What they don’t know is that I am extremely good at getting people to talk about anything!

  • Boost – Part 5

    This is a continuation of my boost erotica fiction. I have no idea on how long this will go for, but for the moment I have a few more stories to write about this. I hope you enjoy.

  • Exposing my inner thoughts on the dark side

    Unknown to me when I was younger, I was dominate when having sex.  I would direct and control the woman with my voice.  Fast forward to now and it something that I am struggling with.  Not the verbal part, that is coming back in stages since I turned it off when I married my wife.…

  • Balance, it is not that easy

    This year will be an interesting one.  Hopefully with change.  Personally I am looking to move out of my role, along with trying to find my wife a new job.  Both have taken a toll since it has been an up hill battle, with one step forward and about five back.  Along with that I am…

  • All nice guys…

    Recently it was stated to me that “All than nice guys must be polygamous.” I paused for a second and thought about that statement. The lifestyle commands respect, since everyone is there to have fun with no pressure and drama.

  • Respect is expected by the woman

    For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man.  I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities.  This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase.  Mostly because…

  • Intimacy

    Many people don’t understand the lifestyle, or at least find it hard to grasp.  The main hangup is the sex act.  How can you fuck someone else and not love them?  Or how can you let your spouse go and fuck someone else, don’t you love them?  I think what everyone is working through is…

  • Alone with my thoughts

    So my first week away from my family.  It has been a bit weird.  No data connection has made me squirrely the first day with my friends not able to chat.  After a few days we sorted it out with the evenings being a bit hard since I worked so late every night.  Think the…

  • Boost – Part 4

    Fumbling in getting my jacket off I search for a condom.  I usually have one in my jacket for the ‘just in case’ scenario.  Never thought that I would use it with a chance encounter like this thought.  Then again having a woman hit on me, then pick me up, and now leading to what is…

  • Year in Review – By the numbers

    Well I have reviewed my stats for the year and there really is not to many surprises.  I will try to be more regular on my posts, since it was kind of hit and miss when I did write. For all of you that have read my blog thank you.  I appreciate that you take…