Category: Personal Insight
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Out and about for Halloween
The wives have planned to go out to Halloween party for past few months. Even had costumes figured out ahead of time. It was a way for them to express themselves safely. The few times going to the club I have enjoyed myself but I am not comfortable at them. I am not a fan…
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King or Queen
With being in the lifestyle there are things that you now review to see if they fit still. Ironic one of those is the bed since having 4 people in a queen size bed is pretty crowded. Not something that works well for sleeping, and even for the sex olympics can be a bit creative. What…
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The first one to get away
Growing up looking at the all the porn, one thing that never really did much for me is girl on girl play. Not that I didn’t like it, but it didn’t do anything for me. I wanted to see the woman get pounded and having two girls intertwined just made me want to join in…
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Giving thanks
Three years ago my wife asked to open my marriage up. A multitude of emotions went through me for a few days. Processing what she asked and how I felt. Back than I had no one to talk to about it so I wrote. What came out of it was a few short stories about…
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Busy time of year
Life just gets in the way of writing and keeping up the blog stories. Things should settle down soon.
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Scream from the roof tops
So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty. Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched. Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉 Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…
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Take her for test drive?
At a long time friends house this weekend to see there new place. Vanilla parties, as I have mentioned in the past is not as much fun but it does have some advantages. Mainly new blood, or potential new blood. Lately I have been looking at couples and wonder “do you play?”
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Rules are there to Rule the couple
Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…
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Horny and no place to Fuck
When the woman are horny at the same time, chatting on my phone, it can get maddening. I can’t satisfy them and it gets frustrating. Yes I have my wife to help with that, but the reason why I have fwb is to, well fuck them. I just can’t call them over to help their…
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Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood
This lifestyle will challenge most men in one specific area. This is because as a man that is one thing that always worked without thought. And when it decides to disappear and not perform it can be a big shock to the man. It also makes the man embarrassed, since the woman expect it to…