Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle
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Not right now
One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…
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Porn star approved
Well you wouldn’t know it but I have tried to call into radio shows in the past when younger. Never got through. Always got jealous at the people that did, and wondering how my luck can always be that bad. So when my wife opened up and stated she wanted another cock, and that she…
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Flashback – Attention is important
Everyone loves attention. For me it is also important since I had some difficulties when growing up and not noticed. Not going to go into details here, but it is something that I notice has a direct affect on me. This article was written regarding the power of attention and how a man changes because…
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Flashback – First swing
We started swinging because I was not able to find any women. The hardest part in this lifestyle is finding like minded people let alone women who understand that I am married and can fuck. Still is a battle even now. Krystalla realized how frustrating it was for me back then and she suggested swinging, to let…
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Friends First
One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle. Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique. Trust and honesty is also another factor. We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with. Actually there was another couple…
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Benefits reduced
I always let the woman know that benefits are a bonus. Sure, I wish it can happen more but timing and life is a factor. The other side of the coin is how relationships change. Again I have lost benefits from one of my good friends. It is funny how things happen and even over…
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Flashback – Wood, Wood and more Wood
Well there is one thing that will happen at least once to a man. That is the cock not waking up. Soft wood is no laughing matter. It will happen, and for a man it is humiliating. Only because for years it worked with no thought or concern. Then that one night, the night where…
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Birthday and new friends
I swear the birthdays just don’t seem to end. Since March it seems someone always has a birth around the corner. This time it is Lexxi’s turn and Bob had made arrangements for some of their friends to come over to celebrate it. Krystalla informed me that they were friends they have met through different…
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Final Thoughts on Cuba
Saturday morning is here and it will be our last day in Cuba. Before I recap the week, I need to go over last nights fun. The first day that we arrived we met a single girl. She was cute and bubbly, and I was interested from the start. No idea if there was a…
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FLASHBACK – Talons
The long weekend is here and with that another road trip. I was up late last night for a couple of reasons one the primary one being my wife was out on a date. The dogs would have been woken up if I went to bed so it is easier if I just wait up…