Open Coupling

Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • Dating vs FWB

    Interesting question was raised during a conversation this week and it got me thinking.  Dating and Friends with benefit (FWB) are similar and also not at the same time.  Both could be considering the same with the major exception that Dating is more of a commitment.  It could have different degrees of that, compared to…

  • Gigalo and the act

    Well my  mind wanders when I drive.  And I have been driving a lot to work of late.  With this it usually falls to three categories.  Women, work, and sex.  Recently we have been hit with number of unexpected bills and has put a strain on our cash flow.  Nothing that we can’t get out…

  • Firsts in my mind

    We have had a lot of firsts.  We have done orgy, group sex, among other things.  The rule for Krystalla and myself is that we have to have done it first before it can be done with anyone else without each other.  Fair rule since we want to enjoy the experience for the first time…

  • Flashback – Slut and what it means

    I am very proud of this article.  Only because I actually had to do some research and review information to make an inform decision.  A few of the girls I talked to started to state that they were a slut.  I have never considered any women a slut even when I was younger.  If the…

  • Alcohol friend and foe

    Alcohol is my friend most days.  It helps me relax and be myself.  Normally I hold back and can be cautious.  With alcohol it allows me to become myself.  In some ways this can be good, and in others not so good.  I have always known that when I am drinking my true self comes…

  • Flashback – Intimacy

    This is the second time that I looked at a definition of a word and broke it down.  I was asked about intimacy and wanted to understand what it meant exactly.  So here is what I thought about it, how it applies to myself and thoughts regarding the act of intimacy. >>>>>>>> Intimacy 

  • Flashback – Fantasy encounter

    I have had a few thoughts on being picked up.  Something that really doesn’t happen to me.  One evening at work there was a function and walking around then I noticed a few attractive ladies.  Knowing that there would be no way that I could actually have time to talk or meet them, I decided…

  • Flashback – Separation was hard

    This was my first work trip that I ever had back in January of this year.  Also it was the first time that I have been away from my wife for more than a few days.  After 5 days, working insane hours, I was alone in my room.  I really didn’t expect the separation to…

  • Flashback – long time cumming

    I really enjoyed this next post. The delay in getting it written was more in trying to get it right.  It was my first time with my one FWB that I have known for close to two years.  Timing it just happened to work out that I had the house to myself.  We have met…

  • Not right now

    One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…