Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • How did I make it

    I don’t travel well.  Actually, I do travel well I just don’t relax until I get where I’m going.  So when the departure day got closer for me to head to the airport I got a bit more stressed.  I booked the flight a while ago and just confirmed parking at the airport the day before…

  • Oral discussion

    We have known each other for over a year. We meet up, actually the same one that we meet our now quad couple, but with some complications we never had a chance to hook up again. It was only a meet and greet but we really enjoyed the time we spent talking to them.  When the opportunity…

  • World of Latex

    It was arranged to have a demo of Latex and how it can be used in the bedroom. It was an interesting experience and as much as the girls liked it, something that really didn’t surprise anyone, it is something that I will enjoy watching.  Much like the other kink that I have been exposed…

  • Feverish

    Locking the door I turn around to see my prey. She is only in bra and panties standing there looking at me wondering what I will do next. I smile forms on my lips and I move slowly towards her. She doesn’t move as I approach her. “You are mine tonight, ” I state firmly,”…

  • Vanilla Swirl

    This past weekend we had the yearly birthday party for my buddy.  We have known each other since grade school and each year we hang out and party.  This year was a bit different since he is bring his wife to join in on the fun.  I have known her for just about as long.…

  • Feelings – when is it to much

    The number of girls that I have dated and seen over the past few years is not that many.  Well at least not on the fwb side of things.  One reason why I enjoy meeting new women is getting to know someone.  Each one is exciting and the NRE is like a drug.  Even after it…

  • One year – how things have changed

    Well after a year I have learned a lot about myself. More from writing and reflecting on myself. Along with discussions with like minded people I think I know more about what I am like. And finding out what I don’t want to become again.  

  • Inner circles

    One thing that I have found interesting is the amount of relationships that you can build in the lifestyle.  The interaction and how everyone knows each other fascinates me.  This also means that there are potentially more risk.  Open communication is so important, more so with multiple partners. Recently had my tests done for STD…

  • Do you want to go for drinks?

    Simple question with so many different layers.  I know for myself that if I ask a woman out for drinks it means that I am interested.  At least if I was single that is what it meant. Doesn’t mean I am getting sex. Heck I usually can’t tell if the woman is even interested.  Going…

  • NSA

    To be fair I use a lot of different terms to make a black and white statement clearer.  That is because with the lifestyle there are a lot of gray areas as well.  My previous post about Dating & FWB seems to have made a few women comment directly to me.  They had an issue with the…