Open Coupling

Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • Finally together again

    Monday morning and I am still tired.  Lilly was here since Thursday evening.  She flew in after a slight delay with the plane being late.  It was an odd feeling going to the airport and not being the one travelling.  Seems that I have travelled more in the past year then the past 10 years.…

  • Dutch Money

    One of the biggest things for me of late is going out. With limited funds I find it hard to justify going out on a date. I can’t afford dinner, drinks or movies so coffee has been the default option.  This also compounds trying to meet new people.  Not having funds makes it hard to…

  • The bug

    Being sick is not fun.  More so if you are trying to keep your partner from getting sick.  The “no contact” that you try to ensure during the illness takes a lot of effort.  More so if you have multiple friends that you see.  The hardest thing is that if you see them less often,…

  • Door Swinging Open

    Open relationship is very different then swinging.  Primarily open relationships is usually alone play and swinging is a group.  The differences in emotions along with the experience can make it difficult for some couples.  For our relationship we started a bit backwards.  We explored the open relationship and then transitioned to swinging based on circumstance.

  • It was a Crappy Night

    It was a rainy night, well not really.  It did rain most of the day but it is cold out. They used to have the smoking area in another room but it is now moved to be outside in the cold.  It does get pretty warm in the club after a bit of time, so…

  • Infected

    What happens when you get an email that your computer us infected?  I usually ignore it until I realized it was my hosting server reporting it.   This made me a bit more reactive, since I then realized all my sites were offline.  Luckily it wasn’t anything serious. After three days though they finally got…

  • Stand Still in life

    Another year has passed.  It has been a crazy year with ups and downs.  Oh get your mind out of the gutter.  This would have been posted on the day but I gotten sidetracked.  

  • Dating Landscape

    So the last new girl that I have met and been with physically is about Feb.  This is a long time for me, since it is one of my little fetishes.  New blood is hard to come by and lately it appears that it will be a while yet.  I have reviewed the dating sites…

  • Love, Life, and the lifestyle

    I haven’t had to explain my situation of late.  When I do the hardest part for people to understand is why?  My girlfriend wrote Why Poly? Why Not? recently regarding this and I would like to expand on it a bit too.  Well more add my two cents about my thoughts and experiences.

  • Twitter jail

    Well this is a new experience being in limbo for over a week.   It seems I violated rules on Twitter, although no email as of yet as to what I did, and the waiting is killing me.   I have used this account for a lot including this blog and I am hoping that I don’t…