Category: Personal Insight

  • Branching Out

    We have been asked by our good friends at http://sexlifeandeverything.com/ to contribute some posts to their site.  The Quad  now has a short BIO on their site as of this week.  I have no idea what to expect from this but I am looking forward to having the creative juices stirring again.  If there are posts…

  • Unexpected Deaths

    You never are prepared for some one passing away.   For me I have had my grandparents around longer than most of my friends.  With that said my grandfather past away on Sunday, Jan 31st which was not expected.  He has been doing well considering that he was 86. Similar to when Krystalla told me she wanted to…

  • Three years later

    I wouldn’t have expected to have two wives.  Didn’t expect it would also be three years into the relationship and it feels more like we have been married for longer.  Having two wives is a lot of work.  Balancing emotions, needs along with two very different personalities can be draining.  Plus the other relationships that…

  • Introductions to my wife

    Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends.  Most of these women have met my wife.  As well I have met majority of their spouses.  I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…

  • Reflection and moving foward

    It is funny how time passes.  The holidays were here and gone.  It went by quickly and even though we didn’t do anything to involved it still flew by.  Now it’s 2016 and the new year has started.  I begin my new job in a few weeks, although I suspect I will be doing training sooner.…

  • Last few days went by too quick

    Saturday was relaxing considering how tired we were the night before.  I got up with the dogs at my usual time.   We really didn’t do much Saturday.   The quad and Lilly get to know each other better.  Also had the photo shoot that Numbnutts promised.  I didn’t watch much of it but from the pics…

  • Isolation with no data

    Travelling is really fun.  Get to see new places and have new experiences.  The adventure you can have can very depending on where you go.  I don’t travel a lot but have done so more in past year than in the past 10 years.  When I visited Chicago in the summer to see my girlfriend I…

  • Finally together again

    Monday morning and I am still tired.  Lilly was here since Thursday evening.  She flew in after a slight delay with the plane being late.  It was an odd feeling going to the airport and not being the one travelling.  Seems that I have travelled more in the past year then the past 10 years.…

  • Dutch Money

    One of the biggest things for me of late is going out. With limited funds I find it hard to justify going out on a date. I can’t afford dinner, drinks or movies so coffee has been the default option.  This also compounds trying to meet new people.  Not having funds makes it hard to…

  • It was a Crappy Night

    It was a rainy night, well not really.  It did rain most of the day but it is cold out. They used to have the smoking area in another room but it is now moved to be outside in the cold.  It does get pretty warm in the club after a bit of time, so…