Category: Personal Insight

  • Stand Still in life

    Another year has passed.  It has been a crazy year with ups and downs.  Oh get your mind out of the gutter.  This would have been posted on the day but I gotten sidetracked.  

  • Dating Landscape

    So the last new girl that I have met and been with physically is about Feb.  This is a long time for me, since it is one of my little fetishes.  New blood is hard to come by and lately it appears that it will be a while yet.  I have reviewed the dating sites…

  • Love, Life, and the lifestyle

    I haven’t had to explain my situation of late.  When I do the hardest part for people to understand is why?  My girlfriend wrote Why Poly? Why Not? recently regarding this and I would like to expand on it a bit too.  Well more add my two cents about my thoughts and experiences.

  • Twitter jail

    Well this is a new experience being in limbo for over a week.   It seems I violated rules on Twitter, although no email as of yet as to what I did, and the waiting is killing me.   I have used this account for a lot including this blog and I am hoping that I don’t…

  • Chicago weekend

    There are times when I travel that I wonder if it is real.  After 5 hours I am in a different city, no cell phone and heading off to my girlfriend’s house.  It seems surreal, and even though I was here in January for work I still recall some of the landmarks and roads.  Hard…

  • How did I make it

    I don’t travel well.  Actually, I do travel well I just don’t relax until I get where I’m going.  So when the departure day got closer for me to head to the airport I got a bit more stressed.  I booked the flight a while ago and just confirmed parking at the airport the day before…

  • World of Latex

    It was arranged to have a demo of Latex and how it can be used in the bedroom. It was an interesting experience and as much as the girls liked it, something that really didn’t surprise anyone, it is something that I will enjoy watching.  Much like the other kink that I have been exposed…

  • Vanilla Swirl

    This past weekend we had the yearly birthday party for my buddy.  We have known each other since grade school and each year we hang out and party.  This year was a bit different since he is bring his wife to join in on the fun.  I have known her for just about as long.…

  • Feelings – when is it to much

    The number of girls that I have dated and seen over the past few years is not that many.  Well at least not on the fwb side of things.  One reason why I enjoy meeting new women is getting to know someone.  Each one is exciting and the NRE is like a drug.  Even after it…

  • One year – how things have changed

    Well after a year I have learned a lot about myself. More from writing and reflecting on myself. Along with discussions with like minded people I think I know more about what I am like. And finding out what I don’t want to become again.