The search begins, again…

This year has been a very interesting with all the surprises that have come my way.  I had a very busy summer, meet a few new people and even had some unexpected fun.  Fall is here now, and my bench has been extremely shortened.  Actually, wouldn’t call it a bench.  More like a chair or two.  You would think that with all the searching I would have found more woman to interact with.  Well that is not the case.

Since mid summer I have been looking for new blood.  Using a couple of sites I thought I would at least have some luck.  Not the case, as I found out.  So I have created another account on another site.  I am not going to divulge which site it is, but to be fair I had to lie on one field to gain access to it.  Do I like that I lied, no.  Gaining access is important though since I used this site when we first opened up and I am hoping that I might get some lucky bites this time around.  The major change for me is that I am going to approach it differently.

I have stated I am single so that I can register.  Not my choice since if I don’t I get blocked, but I will correct anyone who thinks that I am single.  The one thing that I have noticed on the site is the girls are hot.  They didn’t look like this when I started out so long ago.  Since I did that article during the summer on another dating site I am very wary of having to many hot chicks since it feels like it is not legit.  Totally could be wrong but my hackles are up so I will proceed cautiously.

The other thing that is surprising me this time around is that all the woman appear to be single.  When I was on the site before it seemed that they were all trying to cheat on their husbands.  Again this is a change and although I am happy to see this, it also makes me wonder how many profiles are legit.  This could just be me over analysing the situation but I am hoping to see if anyone will talk, or at least attempt to talk.  Why am I writing this.  Well I figured for fun, like my other post about dating site, think I will blog about trying to find new fwb.

So after creating my account I had had only two visits.  I sent one msg to one different lady and got a reply but nothing after sending another message.  So I guess I will try to get responses from other woman.  I just find it hard to say HI and something that makes the woman engage.  Why should it be so hard to get woman to talk?  I understand they are probably flooded with messages, but still I am not sending out those awful pick-up lines.  Then again I don’t have any pick-up lines.  Don’t think I could do it either, it is just not me.

Wish me luck as I dive into the sea again and see if anyone woman exists and wants to chat.