Tag: group play
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Oral discussion
We have known each other for over a year. We meet up, actually the same one that we meet our now quad couple, but with some complications we never had a chance to hook up again. It was only a meet and greet but we really enjoyed the time we spent talking to them. When the opportunity…
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Not right now
One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…
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Friends First
One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle. Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique. Trust and honesty is also another factor. We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with. Actually there was another couple…
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Don’t expect it
I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page. It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much. Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…
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No mind control here
So how has things changed. Well for one is that I am not worried as much about it. Of course I still have that little voice in the back of my head asking if it is hard? Will it get hard? And will it stay hard? This will never go away as much as I…
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Still learning the ropes and no not those kind
Dating when you are single is so much simpler. If you do something it only affects you, and potentially your partner. When you enter the lifestyle, the major difference is that you have to think for yourself along with your partner. Now add another level which is more couples and you can see how it…
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Reflection of four different needs
Our quad has settled into a relationship that has become more like married. It has almost been two years since we met and things have evolved dramatically. This past year has been an eye opener for all of us. Needs and desires for each person is different. Nothing wrong with that at all unless they…
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Highway Sex
Distance has been my major nemesis of late. Well distance is always a problem to be fair. Our quad is separated by 500 km (310 miles) so our visits are scheduled in advance. Sometimes months in advance. Add in family functions, birthdays, and other events and you can see that weekends become few and far…
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Getaway Weekend
Weekend away with my poly wife allows me to reconnect and have some fun.
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King or Queen
With being in the lifestyle there are things that you now review to see if they fit still. Ironic one of those is the bed since having 4 people in a queen size bed is pretty crowded. Not something that works well for sleeping, and even for the sex olympics can be a bit creative. What…