Don’t ask if you don’t want the answer

Okay this has been brewing for a while now and I really have to get this off my chest. Well that and the 6th drink has made me a little drunk.

We selectively tell people who we can trust in handling that we are swingers in open marriage. Reason why is that people can behave differently. Most people who can not understand they don’t own their partner is why we don’t tell them. Well, on better judgement I told my one friend. Known him from high school.  It was a mistake.

He has told my other high schools friends after telling him not to tell anyone. Let alone not tell his wife which he did not more than a few days later. We decide who knows because we can gauge reaction based on personality.

With that said he has known for a year now. The last few months has been where I have been fed up. Being told that my choice is “disturbing”  or “I need help” is where I have drawn the line.  If you don’t like it than don’t ask.  Or better yet when I tell you I’m with my gf or other wife than shut the fuck up and stop texting me about questions that is wasting my time.

Seriously. Why the hell do you remind me that it is not what you agree with. Yes I know you have an insecure relationship with your high school sweet heart.  Not my fault that you can’t comprehend that what we have is not socially accepted. You asked we told you. Accept it. If not move on.

With that said he doesn’t read my blog. I just need to vent and as I sit here with my quad I am stewing. Not how I want to enjoy my last night here. So with that said I will be FUCKING my both my wives tonight. Yes a threesome. Maybe I should send pics and remind him that I was busy.

For those that are new to this remember. If someone asks remind them you can answer it but it may not be what you want to know. Be prepared for the answer. As to my friend I have had enough. I will talk and be social but beyond that nothing. Need a break and he needs to reevaluate what my choices mean. Has no dire affect on him but he better accept it or I will stop our 30 year friendship.

With that I will be having more of this tonight. For those who read this I am done venting and will be the last post about this friend.