Verbal is my weapon

I like to talk.  Think that is a bit obvious with my blog.  My mind constantly is thinking and processing new information.  I have also self analysed my behaviours which has lead me to something that I really should have picked up a while ago.  My power is words and how I can weave them into a simple thought that gets a reaction.  Just whispering a simple “My tongue slowly slides up…” and the woman seems to almost crumple right there on the spot.  Granted I am not the only one that does this but it really didn’t become obvious on how powerful it is until the past year or so.

I never did talk much during sex until I thought back.  When I was younger I made comments and statements but never directed the woman.  It was not until the past couple of years that I have started to communicate during sex.  Demanding or suggesting certain actions.  It has been this power that has allowed me now to understand that I don’t need whips, handcuffs, ropes or any other object.  I just need to command it with my voice and the woman follows.

This benefits me greatly since I do not feel comfortable having a woman strapped down to the bed.  I understand it is not for pain but to heighten the senses.  Make the woman unsure on what can be done to her.  My wife recently found out that she has a very high tolerance for pain, and for me I just can’t bring myself to do that.  With my voice though she responds just as well as if she was tied to the bed.  We each have our preferences and luckily our other couple fits into our comfort zone for each persons wishes.

I don’t consider myself a Dom or any other authority over woman in the bedroom.  Woman are mental creatures (no I don’t mean crazy, though I have met a couple that were) who need their mind stimulated as much as their bodies.  Using my voice has allowed me to control them and make them think along with the sensation of tongue, mouth, fingers or cock in or on their body.  It is a powerful sensation to tell a woman that they can’t cum.  Majority of woman can’t come easily but when the woman can and you tell her she can’t it drives them crazy.  Being told they can’t do something is one thing but when their are repercussions if they don’t follow the command increases it more.  “You don’t seem to be liking this to much, so maybe I should just pull out and leave,” and the woman almost instantly begs no.  “Then you better cum now or else I am pulling out.”  Amazing how fast the woman puts energy into cumming so that she doesn’t loose the cock.

Whispering into her ear, “I want to taste you pussy, feel my tongue sucking and licking your clit.  My fingers travelling between the fold of your lips to feel how hot and wet you are getting from my tongue,” has gotten woman wet just sitting in a chair and hearing that.  Yes I like to talk.  I talk since I don’t want to restrain them physically, I want them restrained them with my words.  It is powerful and watching a woman react to it is erotic.  They also try to fight back with words but if you keep their mind thinking about their throbbing pussy they really don’t have much to say but “Mmmmm.”  Control is an invisible thing but when you can feel it with your words it feels so powerful.

Granted there is a link between using words and having the woman restrained.  I just leave the physical part out.  I can pin down their arms and their bodies if I have to.  The woman needs to feel not in control and to do this I leverage the power of my voice.  It doesn’t take a lot.  Just a few suggestive things can make a woman melt, or better, slip out of her panties wanting more of what you can offer.  Even for me my words can remove bras that I don’t even have to touch.  Woman do like it that a man can remove bras but it is more fun if they do it for me.  Power.  Control.  The voice is an amazing tool and if you are not using it now you should at least think about incorporating it.

You don’t have to go crazy, some woman just like hearing dirty words.  Being called a slut, whore or even daddy’s girl can get a girl soaked.  Like I mentioned woman need the mental stimulation as much as the physical.  If you can provide that you will find the woman will almost do anything that you ask or command.  Just remember it can go two ways so don’t be surprised if they try this on you at some point as well.

Enjoy.