The heat of the moment – cock rules

I have been preaching about communication and well I failed miserably on that last night.  I am not meaning to be forgetful, but when things happen and you don’t communicate fully it can get frustrating for the other half, or in my case halves.  So I really have to ensure that all things are communicated and I don’t let my penis start dictating what is happening.

So yesterday I have been trying to find a date since my house is empty.  It is rare to have the whole family gone and the house to myself.  With that I do not want to miss an opportunity but not having any local girlfriends makes it a bit hard.  Well okay, I do have some girl “friends” but they have never been in my bed.  More of chat companions that I hope one day it could lead to more.  One of the girls I have been chatting to for I think over a year now.

So I put the feelers out and sent it to her and another girl.  When the day came, the one girl really didn’t seem to make an effort and disappeared early in the evening.  I also by chance started talking to another girl that day, and knowing that it was going very well I didn’t see her being over to fuck after just talking for four hours.  Yes I have complained about no locals in the past on my blog, but I refer to locals that want to fuck or get intimate.  Majority of the girls I have talked to are either not interested or just a little off.

As it happens my long term chat lady brings up if we are still meeting.  I said sure.  She mentions a time but then says that she didn’t realize how late it was.  I didn’t hear from her for a while and then next thing I see is “I’m on my way”.  I almost fell of the toilet.  So I scrambled to get ready since I really didn’t think it would be that fast.

Minus some directions to my house issues, which are clear to most people but not to her, she dragged it out that I don’t give good directions all evening.  I did clear up that I do know the directions on the human body.  After she arrived the dogs were excited, more than usually and didn’t want to leave her alone.  So this ends up being an hour of me trying to chat and relax with her with the dogs constantly interrupting us.  Like having three year olds in the house but they just don’t talk verbally at you.  They plop their big head in your lap or lick your feet instead.

Once they settle down I am able to focus and within a short while we are making out.  Now for those of you who were paying attention did you notice one thing missing from this whole little recap?

Our primary rule is a set of two criteria.  When and what is the extent of the visit.  This allows for no surprises.  Full disclosure.  Well if you notice from my little recap there was no full disclosure.  I did respond quickly letting my wife know she was here and I was dealing with the dogs early in evening.  I did NOT let her know what the extent of the visit would entail.  What’s worse is that I only responded back to my other girlfriend “I’m busy”.

So I failed miserably on communicating last night.  I failed to ensure that my other two special ladies were in the loop.  Now I really could go into detail on what transpired last night but that is going to be for my special ladies first.  They have exclusive rights to know first.  I might write up a story based on the events guess it will all depend on time.  I will confirm that my lady friend for the night was in no rush to leave and that we did have lots of fun.

As to my other halves, I have promised to ensure that I communicate fully.  Along with a few favours.  Having two wives (yes it is how I refer to girl friend and my wife) is worst cause know you have to double the work.  I have talked to both of them more this morning and everything is good.  Actually really good since my primary wife and I have realized something else that I will blog about soon.  Yes I like to tease and I hope that you come back for more :P.  Till next time.