Tag: swinging
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Respect is expected by the woman
For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man. I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities. This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase. Mostly because…
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Culture Shock
What I have seen in the past few months, and over the couple of years swinging, is that different cultures have different opinions on relationships. When we first started swinging we ran into our first couple that appeared to have the culture impact the dynamics.
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NYE and the cumming year
Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…
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King or Queen
With being in the lifestyle there are things that you now review to see if they fit still. Ironic one of those is the bed since having 4 people in a queen size bed is pretty crowded. Not something that works well for sleeping, and even for the sex olympics can be a bit creative. What…
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Meet and Greet Dash
Our first time meeting as a couple swinging for a meet and greet didn’t go as planned. Communication is so important in the lifestyle and assumptions were made.
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The first one to get away
Growing up looking at the all the porn, one thing that never really did much for me is girl on girl play. Not that I didn’t like it, but it didn’t do anything for me. I wanted to see the woman get pounded and having two girls intertwined just made me want to join in…
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Giving thanks
Three years ago my wife asked to open my marriage up. A multitude of emotions went through me for a few days. Processing what she asked and how I felt. Back than I had no one to talk to about it so I wrote. What came out of it was a few short stories about…
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Scream from the roof tops
So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty. Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched. Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉 Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…
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Take her for test drive?
At a long time friends house this weekend to see there new place. Vanilla parties, as I have mentioned in the past is not as much fun but it does have some advantages. Mainly new blood, or potential new blood. Lately I have been looking at couples and wonder “do you play?”
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Rules are there to Rule the couple
Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…