Tag: responsible
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Feelings – when is it to much
The number of girls that I have dated and seen over the past few years is not that many. Well at least not on the fwb side of things. One reason why I enjoy meeting new women is getting to know someone. Each one is exciting and the NRE is like a drug. Even after it…
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Not right now
One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…
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Timing is everthing
Working out of Toronto is a pain. My routine for morning and evening is way out of whack. No free time is what I am experiencing and it has been along time since I have dealt with it. Add on the social aspect and it is compounded. I normally talk all the time but driving…
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Transparency
One thing that I have thought humorous over past the years is “the number”. Telling a guy friend that I am seeing 5 girls at once they pretty much give you a high-five. Response from a woman is not the same. Most times there is a long pause. Then lots of questions. I do not hide…
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Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off
There is no rule book or guideline to read. I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs. This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples. Respect and Honesty. These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…
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The work place and sex is complicated
Having been in in the lifestyle for two and half years and still going does not make me an expert. We have learnt a lot from our mistakes and miscommunication. Since some of my friends confide in me it has exposed me to questions that are raised. The one question that came up recently, and also…