Tag: poly
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A stab at Definitions
Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.
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Bring on 2018
The past year has been somewhat of a challenge for me. Primarily on the social aspect since work has consumed my life. The amount of hours worked the last half of the year has earned me high praise from my upper management, but at the cost of no life. I barely have any time for…
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Out of arms reach
You can’t chose who you have feelings for. It happens. This is something I have gotten used to over the past few years. The problem is that most women aren’t close by. So when you have a person who is far away and having a tough time I feel powerless. I want to help. Need…
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Re-Union with Lilly
Funny how distance can make relationships feel like a new experience after many months. Lily planned to visit with her kids for a Canadian vacation for our second meet up of the year. Knowing that it will be a challenge to have her alone to spend time together since all our kids will be home.…
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Reflection and moving foward
It is funny how time passes. The holidays were here and gone. It went by quickly and even though we didn’t do anything to involved it still flew by. Now it’s 2016 and the new year has started. I begin my new job in a few weeks, although I suspect I will be doing training sooner.…
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Last few days went by too quick
Saturday was relaxing considering how tired we were the night before. I got up with the dogs at my usual time. We really didn’t do much Saturday. The quad and Lilly get to know each other better. Also had the photo shoot that Numbnutts promised. I didn’t watch much of it but from the pics…
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Finally together again
Monday morning and I am still tired. Lilly was here since Thursday evening. She flew in after a slight delay with the plane being late. It was an odd feeling going to the airport and not being the one travelling. Seems that I have travelled more in the past year then the past 10 years.…
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Door Swinging Open
Open relationship is very different then swinging. Primarily open relationships is usually alone play and swinging is a group. The differences in emotions along with the experience can make it difficult for some couples. For our relationship we started a bit backwards. We explored the open relationship and then transitioned to swinging based on circumstance.
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Stand Still in life
Another year has passed. It has been a crazy year with ups and downs. Oh get your mind out of the gutter. This would have been posted on the day but I gotten sidetracked.
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Chicago weekend
There are times when I travel that I wonder if it is real. After 5 hours I am in a different city, no cell phone and heading off to my girlfriend’s house. It seems surreal, and even though I was here in January for work I still recall some of the landmarks and roads. Hard…