Tag: non monogamous

  • Take her for test drive?

    At a long time friends house this weekend to see there new place.  Vanilla parties, as I have mentioned in the past is not as much fun but it does have some advantages. Mainly new blood, or potential new blood.  Lately I have been looking at couples and wonder “do you play?” 

  • Rules are there to Rule the couple

    Rules are there to Rule the couple

    Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…

  • Horny and no place to Fuck

    When the woman are horny at the same time, chatting on my phone, it can get maddening.  I can’t satisfy them and it gets frustrating.  Yes I have my wife to help with that, but the reason why I have fwb is to, well fuck them.  I just can’t call them over to help their…

  • Benefits and the strings that don’t exist

    friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.

  • Juggling all these balls is challenging

    Emotions, wives, fwb is a lot to handle.

  • Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off

    There is no rule book or guideline to read.  I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs.  This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples.  Respect and Honesty.  These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…

  • Vanilla is plain, boring and needs a pick me up

    It was the first party that I went to after we opened up that I realized how boring vanilla is.  To be clear, anyone that is not in the lifestyle is vanilla.  Now don’t get me wrong, some of our friends who are vanilla know about us and the lifestyle.  The issue is more when…

  • At the end of the dildo

    These are my thoughts over the past few days.  The hardest part lately is that the woman that I am involved with are reading this on a regular basis.  I am not here to make drama, but I also want to express to everyone, friends and to my followers on my blog, on what I am…

  • Friends first sex later

    The misconception of the life style is that we go out and fuck. As much fun that can be the older you get the less appealing it becomes. Like I mentioned earlier every couple follows their own path. Sure, once in a blue moon it might be fun but the one thing that we really…

  • The Bet – Day 6

    This is a continuation of a story.  This is based on true events.  It is based on a couple of different peoples points of view so I have labelled who is from when the view point changes.  I hope you enjoy it.   Day 6 Jane The three hour drive to see Michelle and Dave is…