Tag: communication

  • Dating for two or more

    As you can see the word communicate is clearly mentioned numerous times. Without this the couple will not survive the lifestyle, let along could risk their marriage. Not telling you partner what you are feeling or thinking runs the risk of assumptions being made. Before we opened up we had a routine, and with that…

  • Hear ye Hear ye – We are in the Lifestyle

    We noticed this as a point of concern when we had a party recently with a mixture of vanilla and lifestyle friends together. One of the vanilla couples had some reservations. More the husband since when most people hear about the lifestyle they think we just get into a room, all cloths come off and…

  • Couples – Boobs, Hands, Cocks… Oh My!

    Twitter chatter has brought me back to my first group experience.  For my first with more then two couples since it is a very different dynamic since it is not just a swap.  It was a very unique and surprising experience since it was not actually planned to happen the way it did.  Let me explain.