Tag: communication
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Not right now
One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…
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Benefits reduced
I always let the woman know that benefits are a bonus. Sure, I wish it can happen more but timing and life is a factor. The other side of the coin is how relationships change. Again I have lost benefits from one of my good friends. It is funny how things happen and even over…
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Birthday and new friends
I swear the birthdays just don’t seem to end. Since March it seems someone always has a birth around the corner. This time it is Lexxi’s turn and Bob had made arrangements for some of their friends to come over to celebrate it. Krystalla informed me that they were friends they have met through different…
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Don’t expect it
I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page. It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much. Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…
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Unique can not be forgotten
For past few weeks I have had the good fortune of seeing a few of my fwb. Timing has actually worked out, although it seems like when it rains it pours. This week especially has been busy. The sex has been great as well, but there has been one common factor of late that I…
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Fantasy – less
I don’t have any fantasies. Well I did, when we first started. One evening during the first month that we opened up so long ago we talked about it. Saying to each other what we wanted to try or thought we would try. Within the first few years I did pretty much everything that I…
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Timing is everthing
Working out of Toronto is a pain. My routine for morning and evening is way out of whack. No free time is what I am experiencing and it has been along time since I have dealt with it. Add on the social aspect and it is compounded. I normally talk all the time but driving…
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Transparency
One thing that I have thought humorous over past the years is “the number”. Telling a guy friend that I am seeing 5 girls at once they pretty much give you a high-five. Response from a woman is not the same. Most times there is a long pause. Then lots of questions. I do not hide…
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Disconnected
For the past week I have had no Internet access in Cuba. To be fair I really haven’t missed it to much consider I was at the pool so my phone was in my room all the time. The first few days I had to stop myself from going to my usual applications. Habit to…
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Birthday Milestones
Today is Krystalla’s birthday. She finally has hit the milestone mark that I did a few years ago. For me back then it was the beginning of a lot of things. That year I started to take Jiu Jitsu to lose weight. It was also the year that she wanted to explore other cock. The…