Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle
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Flashback – The hunt
During my first few years in the lifestyle my old habits started to emerge. You see when I started to date my wife I was not the most decent guy. I was always looking for my next girl that I could be with. Not for any length of time, but for sex. She calmed me…
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Don’t expect it
I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page. It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much. Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…
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What do you want to hear about
So I have written a few erotic stories of late along with a lot of persona insight. I am curious from the few readers (yes only a few) on what you would like to hear about more. Is it something that you want to know more about? Maybe a term or phrase that you want…
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Unique can not be forgotten
For past few weeks I have had the good fortune of seeing a few of my fwb. Timing has actually worked out, although it seems like when it rains it pours. This week especially has been busy. The sex has been great as well, but there has been one common factor of late that I…
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Fantasy – less
I don’t have any fantasies. Well I did, when we first started. One evening during the first month that we opened up so long ago we talked about it. Saying to each other what we wanted to try or thought we would try. Within the first few years I did pretty much everything that I…
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Timing is everthing
Working out of Toronto is a pain. My routine for morning and evening is way out of whack. No free time is what I am experiencing and it has been along time since I have dealt with it. Add on the social aspect and it is compounded. I normally talk all the time but driving…
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Location Location Location
So not having a empty house to use is a pain. Add on the fact that your date has the same problem and it makes it hard to hook up. And no I don’t mean just for coffee, I mean for sex. Yes there are a few that I see that we hook up for…
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Ocean fun
The night air was cool compared to the days in Cuba. The weather can be blistering hot and if you aren’t careful you can easily get dehydrated quickly. Luckily having lots of beer with water helps. This was the last evening here on the island and with that I was hoping to find a chance…
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Transparency
One thing that I have thought humorous over past the years is “the number”. Telling a guy friend that I am seeing 5 girls at once they pretty much give you a high-five. Response from a woman is not the same. Most times there is a long pause. Then lots of questions. I do not hide…
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Disconnected
For the past week I have had no Internet access in Cuba. To be fair I really haven’t missed it to much consider I was at the pool so my phone was in my room all the time. The first few days I had to stop myself from going to my usual applications. Habit to…