Open Coupling

Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • It was a dark and snowy night

    The lights shiny brightly as the bus pulled into the terminal.  Glancing around I see that I am the only one heading towards it.  Doors open with the familiar swoosh sound and I head up the stairs to board the bus.  It is dark, being it is night time there are no running lights inside.  I glance down…

  • Long ride

    For some of you that know me, or follow me on Twitter I am heading back to see my other girlfriend.  It will take about 12 hours by bus to get there.  Most of you are shaking your head but let me explain. I have been working on going back to see Lilly for a…

  • Stood up

    I would think I am polite and nice guy.  If I am not able to meet then I would let the other person know.  Common courtesy. At least that is how I operate. I have meet a few women online that seem to think that doesn’t matter.   Have been ignored, deleted with no explanation and…

  • Branching Out

    We have been asked by our good friends at http://sexlifeandeverything.com/ to contribute some posts to their site.  The Quad  now has a short BIO on their site as of this week.  I have no idea what to expect from this but I am looking forward to having the creative juices stirring again.  If there are posts…

  • Unexpected Deaths

    You never are prepared for some one passing away.   For me I have had my grandparents around longer than most of my friends.  With that said my grandfather past away on Sunday, Jan 31st which was not expected.  He has been doing well considering that he was 86. Similar to when Krystalla told me she wanted to…

  • Three years later

    I wouldn’t have expected to have two wives.  Didn’t expect it would also be three years into the relationship and it feels more like we have been married for longer.  Having two wives is a lot of work.  Balancing emotions, needs along with two very different personalities can be draining.  Plus the other relationships that…

  • Introductions to my wife

    Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends.  Most of these women have met my wife.  As well I have met majority of their spouses.  I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…

  • Reflection and moving foward

    It is funny how time passes.  The holidays were here and gone.  It went by quickly and even though we didn’t do anything to involved it still flew by.  Now it’s 2016 and the new year has started.  I begin my new job in a few weeks, although I suspect I will be doing training sooner.…

  • Last few days went by too quick

    Saturday was relaxing considering how tired we were the night before.  I got up with the dogs at my usual time.   We really didn’t do much Saturday.   The quad and Lilly get to know each other better.  Also had the photo shoot that Numbnutts promised.  I didn’t watch much of it but from the pics…

  • Isolation with no data

    Travelling is really fun.  Get to see new places and have new experiences.  The adventure you can have can very depending on where you go.  I don’t travel a lot but have done so more in past year than in the past 10 years.  When I visited Chicago in the summer to see my girlfriend I…