Exploring and Learning about the Lifestyle

  • 8 degrees of FWB

    Since I started my blog I have done some topics that were brought up by other friends.  Primarily related to the lifestyle have been some of those.  My hope is that with me exposing the topic and working through what my thoughts about it are might allow the readers to open their mind to the thought.…

  • Monday Reality

    Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend.  I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up.  The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self.  My wife was almost…

  • Surprised to silence

    My mind has been in over drive of late. With my birthday weekend having so many ups and downs and work not helping I have been kind of numb.  Going through the motions. Work sleep and work again.  Jane has been my rock through this.  More so then I knew.  Along with my poly wife…

  • Escape – Female point of view of Do Not Disturb

    After Greg posted his story about our time together, I read it over and over (Do not Disturb and Guilty Goodbye).  Not just for the sensuality of the experiences, although they were fun; but because, as the months pass, my memories start to fade.  And my encounter with him was a bit of a turning point for…

  • To my wives…

    This is the follow up to the Guilty Goodbye, since I made one critical mistake.  When I arranged to meet Lilly on the Friday before I went home, I didn’t advise either of my wives of the rendezvous.  We have an open relationship and tell each other everything.  I left this detail out, and even…

  • Guilty Goodbye

    Trust me, I really wanted the booty call. I enjoyed my time with Lilly a lot! We connected strongly and I do not want to hurt her, but I do know I will miss her too. Majority of my woman I have this connection with, and it also stirs up feelings. And I worry about…

  • Ups and Downs

    This weekend was not what I expected.  Lets just say that for my expectations there were some holes.  Don’t get me wrong, the weekend was fun, for the most part.  Just that some unexpected situations arose.  So lets cover that first. Thursday and Friday both Krystalla and myself noticed my cat was not behaving normally.…

  • Feeling limitations

    For some of you that follow me I have a few fwb. Well if I was to count them up you would be shaking your head. Doesn’t mean I have sex all the time. We are all busy with life, family, work and friends. This is my dilemma of late on balancing the relationships. Of…

  • No mind control here

    So how has things changed. Well for one is that I am not worried as much about it. Of course I still have that little voice in the back of my head asking if it is hard? Will it get hard? And will it stay hard? This will never go away as much as I…

  • 50 Shades of voices

    I have read the book and the writing was horrible. After seeing the movie I found I liked it better. Maybe because of the lack of suffering such a badly written book. I couldn’t even continue reading the second (although I am now considering it).  I did discover one thing that did surprise me. Control.…