King or Queen

With being in the lifestyle there are things that you now review to see if they fit still.  Ironic one of those is the bed since having 4 people in a queen size bed is pretty crowded.  Not something that works well for sleeping, and even for the sex olympics can be a bit creative.  What has transpired this thought process of late is our two dogs.

You see when we normally sleep, sometime around 5 am one of both dogs sneak into our bed.  We don’t mind, although it does add some laughs when we can’t seem to move being pinned down by two dogs.  The dogs know that they are not allowed up until morning (mostly) so it has worked for us.  That was until last night.

Lexxi is staying with us for a few days to recover from a procedure.  We have slept three in a bed before, but this was before we got our second dog.  What I learned last night is that having two dogs and two woman in the same bed really doesn’t mix.  Not to mention our youngest dog is hell bent on being comfortable on the bed.  The other factor is not everyone can really get comfortable in the bed.  Add the dogs and it becomes a very crowded bed.  So my thoughts last night was, “We need a bigger bed.”

Actually we have be discussing the bed size for some time now.  The realization of having more bed space would make so many things easier.  Dogs, couple play and obviously more couples in one bed if it happens.  Our bed has been with us since we got married so long ago (I won’t go into the years since it would make me feel older) so it is due for a change.  A lot of miles have been put on it (yes I went there) and I think it is time to trade it in for an upgrade.