Highway Sex

Distance has been my major nemesis of late.  Well distance is always a problem to be fair.  Our quad is separated by 500 km (310 miles) so our visits are scheduled in advance.  Sometimes months in advance.  Add in family functions, birthdays, and other events and you can see that weekends become few and far between.  So this alone makes our visits more important since we see them once a month if we are lucky.  Although there are some months were it is more.

We meet our couple on a meet up in Niagara Falls just shy of two years ago.  At that meet up we also wanted to meet another couple.  As things worked out some 10 months later we had them over with our quad and it went very well.  Everyone got along and things just seemed to easy and relaxed.  Unfortunately, like our quad, real life got in the way and we haven’t seen them since New Years 2013 so it is way overdue.  Not to mention that they are about 250 km away.  Starting to see a theme here?

Another couple that we meet through twitter is also starting to look at being back in cycle.  Granted they are less than 100 km but not right around the corner.  Family was there focus for the past little while but now that they are looking to enter the lifestyle again.  It will be interesting to see where it goes.  Heck my one fwb is about the same distance and seeing her is just has hard since family life is priority.  Visits with here are like once every six months.

This leaves trying to schedule dates to meet, not just for sex, complicated.  Leaving time with our quad, and our other couples makes scheduling difficult.  This weekend we were invited to a meet up.  Head out to a club and just have fun, sexy or not.  Unfortunately we had plans, so we can’t make it.  It does suck that plans don’t work out, and this was a bit last minute.  Still meeting our friends for fun times, at least this year, has been very hit and miss.

My goal for 2015 is to see our friends more regularly.  It will take more effort, and some luck most likely.  Sex is great, but we are not in it just for the sex.  We can be open and not have to hide anything around these couples.  That is a great relief since being confined by the rules of normal etiquette with other friends can sometimes be frustrating.  Freedom to speak freely is so much easier.  So with that in mind, and I knew a few couples read my blog, keep this in mind for 2015.

As for the distance, it will be a constant factor for us.  Time and energy will be spent in making sure we stay in contact with our good friends.  Looking forward to 2015 I think it will be a fun year, since rumour is that we might be starting it off with a trip down south.  More on that later. 😉