Getaway Weekend

Getting home early afternoon from a weekend with my poly wife Lexxi and a long drive in snow and cold made for a tired man.  What you don’t know is that when I drove up Friday afternoon I was doing way more than the speed limit.  On the way home, I took my time.  Not that I wanted to not get home, but more that I wanted to get up to the resort to see Lexxi.  You see the past twelve months has been a roller coaster.  The hardest part on any relationship is making things work.  What is harder is when there is 500 km distance between each other, and add in two more people just makes things even more complicated.

Seeing Lexxi by ourselves is not a common occurrence.  Since we are both married it is couples together, although we do share each other beds when we do visit.  One thing that I am learning more over the past year is that in groups I close down, but alone I seem to come alive.  This is probably from my past, where in a group I was never the focus.  I always last to be noticed, so I am more used to working alone.  This is been something I have been trying to adapt to.  The club at Halloween was one thing that I wanted to work on.  I am trying new things to open me up and it will happen, just takes time.

I am off topic, so back to the weekend.  Arriving at the resort I was surprised that I beat Lexxi.  I looked up on glympse and saw that she was only a few minutes behind me.  Once she arrived I carefully acted casual and made my way over to her.  Kiss and hug was quick and we headed into register.  What is more fun this weekend was that we didn’t have the same last name.  Can only imagine the staff there wondering how to people who don’t have the same name would be at a couples resort.  I will say it never was brought up or questioned.  Almost wished it was at times.

Our room was great.  It had a home comfort feel to it.  Small and intimate with everything you need to enjoy ourselves.  What I do find humorous  is that it is a couples resort.  Everything geared towards the couple.  The hot tub sits four, well five since we counted.  That was a bit odd since the majority of the clients that were at the resort was older then us.  Well there was two couples that we almost guarantee where swapping, but we never had a chance to talk to them to find out.  So why have a hot tub for four?  And I suspected all of the rooms had the same model.  Ah well, maybe if we go again we will find out.

Regardless the weekend went by a little to fast.  Even though we didn’t do a lot.  Let me rephrase, we didn’t do a lot outside of our room.  The horseback ride was amazing, and it has been a long time since I was on a horse.  Good news is that I didn’t’ even get sore from riding.  We spent a long time in the hot tub on the last night there talking about our relationship and the quad.  We covered a lot of topics, things discussed over texting wouldn’t work.  The final point was that I have become distant.  With the past month, well maybe more I have been not as talkative.  There are some reasons, but in truth I have no excuse.

You all thought I was going to have rainbows and puppy dog tails to discuss about this weekend.  And there was, but we also covered other areas.  I explained to Lexxi that I hope that she understands but I am thinking for the group, our quad.  As I explained, dating for yourself is easy.  Dating as a couple with another couple adds so many complications and emotions.  It is a hard thing to balance, and with each having our own fetishes it adds more to it as well.

This weekend was about reconnecting.  We did that and I feel that we covered a lot of concerns and issues that we really couldn’t discuss over text.  I know that next year will will have a couple retreat at some point and I look forward to it.  We had a trip on a houseboat in our first year together and it was one of the best vacations that I ever had.  The future will hold more adventures, and with that it will make me open up to new experiences.  Might even label it the fetish year since that is where I need to work on growing and exploring more.  Both wives just got wet reading that statement.