Feelings and musing after date night for my wife

I love going to the theater.  The joy of watching the trailers and then the feature comes on and I don’t leave my seat.  My eyes glued to the screen through the whole thing.  Similar when I am watching my tv I get absorbed into it, and nothing should disturb me during this time.  When my wife mentioned she is going to the theater on a date I said “Sure, no problem.”  Then I thought back and realized that we never fooled around in one.  My point above is primarily the main reason, but also back then she was shy.  Very shy.  So with her new found sexuality I wondered what would happen.

Krystalla has been talking to this gentleman for a while now.  I have heard off and on more about him.  When it came up that I could talk to him and his wife I agreed.  Knowing more about both of them makes everything so much easier.  It is not the same as meeting them in person, but it allows me to get a read on who they are and if I have any concerns.  After a brief group chat I felt comfortable and for a few days off and on I have chatted with both of them, although more the wife.  Why?  Well in this relationship she is the one that doesn’t participate in the lifestyle but the husband does.  With this in mind I wanted to know more about her and to understand what she gets out of this dynamic.

So last night was the date and with me working late I didn’t get home till 8 pm.  The movie finished around 9ish and I got a text that they were going for coffee.  So talking to the his wife off and on for the evening we started to dwell on what they could be doing.  It was a great chat, and gave me a strong insight into what she was thinking and to a degree feeling.  I also offered up my blog at the end of the conversation, just before Krystalla got home so I suspect she will be blushing a bit when reading this paragraph.

How did I do with this date?  This is the first time that I was not anxious, nervous or lost which is surprising since I have not met the man.  I felt relaxed, although maybe a bit jealous.  All of my dates have been coffee.  Not an activity really, and it has crossed my mind to do something like that but I just didn’t think it was right.  So why did I let Krystalla go on out?  She has never really dated, and who am I to refuse that for her.  Right now these two are dating.  All the actions and behaviour is pretty much that.  So I am enjoying it, letting her experience something that in reality was not like our relationship.  (if you want to hear first time meeting and how we ended up together will need a lot of requests.)

And I am enjoying talking to the other wife as well.  She has some similar tastes plus she is easy to talk too.  I have my other girls that I talk too still.  And I really need to get out to see them again soon since one is way overdue.  There is the chatting on text but nothing like in person to spend some quality time.  Get your mind out of the gutter, I haven’t done that yet on a coffee date.  Have you seen outside lately here in Canada.  Pulling out my dick in this weather would make him retreat right back into my body.  Well it could be coaxed out… never mind not going there.

I am looking forward to Krystalla’s next date since I would assume it would be along the same lines as last nights.  Well maybe a bit more interaction but hey, up to them on what they want to do.  If you have any thoughts on this let me know.  I like to hear what your thoughts are, even if it is negative or not.