Couples – Boobs, Hands, Cocks… Oh My!

Twitter chatter has brought me back to my first group experience.  For my first with more then two couples since it is a very different dynamic since it is not just a swap.  It was a very unique and surprising experience since it was not actually planned to happen the way it did.  Let me explain.

I could start at the beginning which would cover months of explanation so I won’t bore you with the details.  The highlights are that our current couple that we are involved with met at a meet and greet.  Also at this gathering was another couple that I was also keen on.  Over a few months time we were able to meet up with them again.  Not that we didn’t want to meet them sooner but it was circumstance that held us all apart until that one weekend.

You see we are not in this lifestyle for the fuck.  Don’t get me wrong I do as much as the rest of our quad enjoy that bonus but we also enjoy being friends.  We travel together, drink, talk, socialize and basically are very good friends.  The difference is that we also get naughty together.  So for the gathering this weekend it was strictly a meet and greet.

Everyone was aware of the rules, and we all agreed to them.  It made the evening simple in a sense since there was not expectations.  Just talking among all of us about what has happened since we last met.  As the evening went on the alcohol flowed more freely.  Now as everyone knows alcohol can equalize everything.  Not to mention after enough shots things can get a little risky.  By chance, as I was coming upstairs to see where two the woman were, they were talking quietly in the hallway.

I came up behind my second wife and gave her a quick hug.  To make this less confusing lets call my second wife Lexxi and the third wife Angel.  Both of them seem to be in a serious conversation and they confirmed that they were wanting to say that everyone was have a great time.  This then somehow changed to piercings and what Lexxi has had done to her.  What happened next was something I didn’t expect.  Angel glanced down at her boobs and asked “can I see them?”  She froze like a deer in headlights.  She didn’t know what to do.  With out skipping a beat I responded “Sure,” and proceeded to pull her shirt up and expose her breasts to her.  From here is where it went downhill so to speak.

After more talk upstairs with the two woman it was decided that if everyone agrees, that we would look at possibly doing a soft swap.  For the uninformed this means that there is no penetration.  Oral is fine along with swapping partners.  Of course if someone is uncomfortable then they can stop what is happening.  No pressure situation is what was planned although the sexual tension that has been building for the past few hours it needed to be released somehow.  For reference soft swap doesn’t always mean you swap partners.  You can be in the same room and please your own partner as you watch the other couple do the same.

All parties had to be informed so we split off to discuss with our partners to make sure we were all on the same page.  Once everyone was in agreement we all gathered back at the bar and started chatting again.  Like nothing was discussed or that it was not on our mind.  After a short period of time the physical contact between couples were closer and more daring.  Not to much time later hands, boobs, mouths, and tongues where in action.

To keep privacy I have blocked out some parts of the photo but you can get a clear idea on what can happen.  This started out as one big group grab bag and then separated into couples with tongues and mouths going to work.  I have been told how long this goes on for but I don’t recall it at the moment.  Needless to say it was probably almost four hours.  Honestly we don’t really know since it seemed like time stood still during it all.

This leads me to the title of this blog.  Group play is what you make of it.  The more couples that you have in the group the more intense of an experience it can be.  After this experience I would love to have a larger group but know that the experience will be different.  More stimulation can also over stimulate as well.  The effect can sometimes not be what you expect.

Every experience you have in this lifestyle is going to be different.  And it will also never be the same, and you will have some bad experiences as well.  Like golf you will always want to come back to that one great shot and this lifestyle feeds the same need.  You will always try to capture the same feeling and with the diversity of couples you will always find something new to try.

The one thing that made this work so well is that communication was open.  No one was outside of the loop and we were all in understanding of the limits.  Without this then you run the risk of complications and in this lifestyle you really don’t want that.

As for what will happen next?  Well our next group meet up with this couple and our quad will not be limited to soft swap.  And I suspect that more than one room will be baptised by different couples along with the garage.  It is just when we will be able to schedule it.

And we never did confirm what the actual number is to be classified as an orgy.  I should look that up again. UPDATE: I was informed by a member on twitter that anything higher than 5 is an orgy.  Sounds good to me 😉