Open Coupling

Category: Random Thoughts

  • Age is just a number, I think

    The author reflects on their health journey, emphasizing challenges faced after an emergency appendicitis and subsequent COVID infection. They have quit smoking and are focusing on improving their fitness. Acknowledging age-related changes, they seek to support their partner while cultivating self-improvement and understanding the importance of mental health for 2025.

  • You AREN’T what you read!

    Having a chat with a few guys at work and some how spam mail came up. As we talked I stated if I was to believe everything that I was sent then I would be a messed up guy. With that I thought it would be a good post just to see how screwed up…

  • Do you want to go for drinks?

    Simple question with so many different layers.  I know for myself that if I ask a woman out for drinks it means that I am interested.  At least if I was single that is what it meant. Doesn’t mean I am getting sex. Heck I usually can’t tell if the woman is even interested.  Going…

  • Dating vs FWB

    Interesting question was raised during a conversation this week and it got me thinking.  Dating and Friends with benefit (FWB) are similar and also not at the same time.  Both could be considering the same with the major exception that Dating is more of a commitment.  It could have different degrees of that, compared to…

  • Gigalo and the act

    Well my  mind wanders when I drive.  And I have been driving a lot to work of late.  With this it usually falls to three categories.  Women, work, and sex.  Recently we have been hit with number of unexpected bills and has put a strain on our cash flow.  Nothing that we can’t get out…

  • Flashback – Slut and what it means

    I am very proud of this article.  Only because I actually had to do some research and review information to make an inform decision.  A few of the girls I talked to started to state that they were a slut.  I have never considered any women a slut even when I was younger.  If the…

  • Flashback – Intimacy

    This is the second time that I looked at a definition of a word and broke it down.  I was asked about intimacy and wanted to understand what it meant exactly.  So here is what I thought about it, how it applies to myself and thoughts regarding the act of intimacy. >>>>>>>> Intimacy 

  • Flashback – Fantasy encounter

    I have had a few thoughts on being picked up.  Something that really doesn’t happen to me.  One evening at work there was a function and walking around then I noticed a few attractive ladies.  Knowing that there would be no way that I could actually have time to talk or meet them, I decided…

  • Flashback – Separation was hard

    This was my first work trip that I ever had back in January of this year.  Also it was the first time that I have been away from my wife for more than a few days.  After 5 days, working insane hours, I was alone in my room.  I really didn’t expect the separation to…

  • Flashback – long time cumming

    I really enjoyed this next post. The delay in getting it written was more in trying to get it right.  It was my first time with my one FWB that I have known for close to two years.  Timing it just happened to work out that I had the house to myself.  We have met…