Category: Lifestyle
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Rules are there to Rule the couple
Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…
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Don’t ask if you don’t want the answer
Okay this has been brewing for a while now and I really have to get this off my chest. Well that and the 6th drink has made me a little drunk. We selectively tell people who we can trust in handling that we are swingers in open marriage. Reason why is that people can behave…
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Benefits and the strings that don’t exist
friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.
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Women don’t take simple answers.
I have been asked why I don’t post more my internal thoughts and feelings. I think this will explain why I guard my thoughts and statements more so now than in the past.
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Juggling all these balls is challenging
Emotions, wives, fwb is a lot to handle.
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Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off
There is no rule book or guideline to read. I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs. This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples. Respect and Honesty. These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…
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The heat of the moment – cock rules
I have been preaching about communication and well I failed miserably on that last night. I am not meaning to be forgetful, but when things happen and you don’t communicate fully it can get frustrating for the other half, or in my case halves. So I really have to ensure that all things are communicated…
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You let your wife do what?
This is my raw thoughts so no editing has been done. A smile flashes across my face as I think about what is happening about 30 mins away. Right now my wife is at a friends house about to get fucked. Why am I smiling? Few reasons with one this is way over due. …
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Dating for two or more
As you can see the word communicate is clearly mentioned numerous times. Without this the couple will not survive the lifestyle, let along could risk their marriage. Not telling you partner what you are feeling or thinking runs the risk of assumptions being made. Before we opened up we had a routine, and with that…
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Walk of shame shouldn’t exist
I have chatted with a girl after we had casual encounter recently. We didn’t have sex but we did fool around. What I found out was she felt the walk of shame. For me I have never really had that issue. I might have some regrets on what I didn’t get a chance to try…