Category: Lifestyle
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Finally together again
Monday morning and I am still tired. Lilly was here since Thursday evening. She flew in after a slight delay with the plane being late. It was an odd feeling going to the airport and not being the one travelling. Seems that I have travelled more in the past year then the past 10 years.…
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The bug
Being sick is not fun. More so if you are trying to keep your partner from getting sick. The “no contact” that you try to ensure during the illness takes a lot of effort. More so if you have multiple friends that you see. The hardest thing is that if you see them less often,…
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Door Swinging Open
Open relationship is very different then swinging. Primarily open relationships is usually alone play and swinging is a group. The differences in emotions along with the experience can make it difficult for some couples. For our relationship we started a bit backwards. We explored the open relationship and then transitioned to swinging based on circumstance.
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Love, Life, and the lifestyle
I haven’t had to explain my situation of late. When I do the hardest part for people to understand is why? My girlfriend wrote Why Poly? Why Not? recently regarding this and I would like to expand on it a bit too. Well more add my two cents about my thoughts and experiences.
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NSA
To be fair I use a lot of different terms to make a black and white statement clearer. That is because with the lifestyle there are a lot of gray areas as well. My previous post about Dating & FWB seems to have made a few women comment directly to me. They had an issue with the…
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Firsts in my mind
We have had a lot of firsts. We have done orgy, group sex, among other things. The rule for Krystalla and myself is that we have to have done it first before it can be done with anyone else without each other. Fair rule since we want to enjoy the experience for the first time…
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Don’t expect it
I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page. It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much. Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…
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8 degrees of FWB
Since I started my blog I have done some topics that were brought up by other friends. Primarily related to the lifestyle have been some of those. My hope is that with me exposing the topic and working through what my thoughts about it are might allow the readers to open their mind to the thought.…
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Reflection of four different needs
Our quad has settled into a relationship that has become more like married. It has almost been two years since we met and things have evolved dramatically. This past year has been an eye opener for all of us. Needs and desires for each person is different. Nothing wrong with that at all unless they…
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Weekend has been a blur
My wife’s vanilla gf was over this weekend, which was exciting. She knows about our lifestyle and I enjoy seeing how far I can push the context of sex. She is a bit of a prude so it is fun to see reactions from her. Although I didn’t have much time visit on Saturday evening…