Blue jobs

Girls didn’t do blow jobs when I grew up.  And if you did by chance get one they never finish it.  I have no idea when things changed where it became main stream.  Getting blown back then was rare.  So when I got married it was part of our foreplay.  She never finished just tasted it, sucked it and played with it in her mouth and than on to sex.  She keep improving her technique until one day….

You see my wife was innocent when I met here.  She never had sex, first real boy friend and really the first guy actually dated. I had no original plans on staying with her, planning a fuck and than move on. 
But she settled me down.  I was out of control at that point in my life and that is why I stayed.  Sex was not that great at the beginning but she was still new.  It took time and surprisingly porn taught her about blow jobs (and anal but that is a different story)
The blow job is not really complicated but there are some simple rules.  First is wet.  Like playing with a girls pussy if it is dry it hurts.  This also allows the hand to stoke the shaft more easily.  Secondly it has to be tight.  Men’s cocks like to be surrounded, since the head and shaft is where we get the sensation from.  Having a loose sloppy blow job really doesn’t have the same affect as tight suction surrounding it.  Third is speed.  When we masterbating we do not do it slowly. This would be a tease but if you want that sweet taste (for me at least ;)) speed is very important.  Of course if you are trying to tease the man go ahead.  If you want him to finish well than make sure you have good seal and suction on it. 
With that said I have had no girl that swallowed.  I also trained myself to not blow my load. So that day in the shower she was going to town on my cock.  I figured that if I blow my load we are in the shower and that there would be no mess.  I pulled her head off but she refused.  Well that sealed the deal so to speak and I blew in seconds.  She swallowed it all.  And has not stopped since. 
Now having different girls blow me over the past couple of years I have realized how different everyone is in the approach.  Each one does it based on there experience with there partner.  Like a woman’s pussy each one is different. And I am not the greatest on saying how I like it.  Funny I can direct a girl on anything in the bedroom but with blow jobs I stay quiet.  One thing I have to start working on.  Well that and letting go on controlling my release for the girl receiving my load. 
So when it is so close but can’t get over the edge it can get frustrating.  And I have also got an over active mind now which if it kicks in well it blocks it as well.  Imagine it is the same with woman and when we tease there pussy with fingers and tongue that if you can’t get them over the edge they get frustrated to.  Hence the blue job since the old joke about blue balls. It becomes a blue job if you can’t finish (yes I just made it up).
So tell the girl what is working.  Woman don’t always tell us what works orally on them but actions and sounds let us know.  Men really don’t show much besides the hard cock.  So verbal commands it has to be.  Like all things it will happen and if not than just flip her over and bury your cock into her pussy.  She won’t argue. 
Now I think I need to find a warm mouth and see if I can finish.  Or maybe two mouths.  It has been a while.  🙂

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