Well I was quiet on Nov 11th for a couple of reasons. One is that it is remembrance day, so I did try to stay off the social media out of respect for our veterans. Plus I was on the hunt for some pussy. It is rare to have the house empty, no kids or wife, and I really don’t like wasting those opportunities. No one was available, even had a few of my fwb wish they were available, but I was alone at home. This is kind of the other reason I am on a new dating site, to see if I can improve my bench and at least have options. Of course, things are different some three years later after being back on the site.
The first huge difference, the girls are all hot. Three years ago you wouldn’t find that many hot girls on the site. Not saying there are not hot girls in my area (I have seen them about the town) but they sure weren’t on dating sites. Now looking at this site and seeing the over abundant amount, it just seems phoney. More worry some is that all most all of them want long term relationships. This is another huge difference to when I was on before. Majority of them that were on here were cheating, lonely, horny woman that were looking to get laid. At least that is the impression from the profiles, since they rarely talked. So the differences are very noticeable from three years ago. Still haven’t seen any one from then, so again this makes me wonder.
In the three days that I have created the account I now have eight views. Not bad, considering I have looked at 84 woman and only a few have looked at me back. Actually the first few that popped up on my radar is from the quick match, which I really don’t like since it is only based on perception and not any facts. Either way I have been busy going through what is out there with little success. At least until last night when I got a hit.
She made the quick match and after a few more pings I started talking to her. Messaging simple questions and answers so we shall see what happens. I have not outlined my lifestyle, or that I have a blog about the lifestyle, so we shall see how it goes. Want to make sure she is clear on who I am sooner than later but I don’t want to bombard her with the details right away. As it is all most all the woman on all the sites don’t want to share, and this I can appreciate. Providing this information is critical so it will happen soon, just need the right time to do it.
The other side of the coin is trust. I am aware that my wife has been talking to someone who is in an open relationship, but the wife does not participate. These situations always leave me wary, and at this current point I am in the same situation. I do not want to have the woman think I am doing this without my wife knowing. Honesty and trust is important to me, but currently my situation is complicated based on the site that I am using. I don’t like misinformation but in this case I am in the position where one point is not truly accurate. Getting this cleared up quickly is important.
Any ways, I have also sent out about five messages to different ladies, with no response. Not surprised at all since it seems getting any woman to reply, even a thanks but no thanks, is like pulling teeth out with a spoon. Trying to make the initial message personable is sometimes hard with little information to go on but I do try. No idea what pick up lines are since I never used them. Being respectable to the woman is important so I try to keep that going into any new contact. Up to them to lead me down into the gutter.
That is it for now. We shall see how the next couple of days go. With the weekend fast approaching hopefully I can get some progress with this new woman as to what she is looking for.
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