Tag: open marriage
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Giving thanks
Three years ago my wife asked to open my marriage up. A multitude of emotions went through me for a few days. Processing what she asked and how I felt. Back than I had no one to talk to about it so I wrote. What came out of it was a few short stories about…
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Scream from the roof tops
So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty. Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched. Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉 Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…
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Rules are there to Rule the couple
Rules are so important for the lifestyle. The allow growth, protection and nurture the couple to enjoy themselves. The rules can also be restrictive if they are not reviewed on regular basis. Both parties need to discuss on regular basis. Read more on how we have been adopting our rules and why they can be…
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Horny and no place to Fuck
When the woman are horny at the same time, chatting on my phone, it can get maddening. I can’t satisfy them and it gets frustrating. Yes I have my wife to help with that, but the reason why I have fwb is to, well fuck them. I just can’t call them over to help their…
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Don’t ask if you don’t want the answer
Okay this has been brewing for a while now and I really have to get this off my chest. Well that and the 6th drink has made me a little drunk. We selectively tell people who we can trust in handling that we are swingers in open marriage. Reason why is that people can behave…
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Benefits and the strings that don’t exist
friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.
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Juggling all these balls is challenging
Emotions, wives, fwb is a lot to handle.
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Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off
There is no rule book or guideline to read. I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs. This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples. Respect and Honesty. These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…
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Vanilla is plain, boring and needs a pick me up
It was the first party that I went to after we opened up that I realized how boring vanilla is. To be clear, anyone that is not in the lifestyle is vanilla. Now don’t get me wrong, some of our friends who are vanilla know about us and the lifestyle. The issue is more when…
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Friends first sex later
The misconception of the life style is that we go out and fuck. As much fun that can be the older you get the less appealing it becomes. Like I mentioned earlier every couple follows their own path. Sure, once in a blue moon it might be fun but the one thing that we really…