Tag: lifestyle

  • Dating for two or more

    As you can see the word communicate is clearly mentioned numerous times. Without this the couple will not survive the lifestyle, let along could risk their marriage. Not telling you partner what you are feeling or thinking runs the risk of assumptions being made. Before we opened up we had a routine, and with that…

  • Open to Change – the next day

    Here is the continuation of my story OPEN TO CHANGE. This story loosely based on real life events. To be clear this is about a couple exploring their feelings and understanding what they want from their relationship. They are exploring having sexual relationships outside of the marriage.

  • Hear ye Hear ye – We are in the Lifestyle

    We noticed this as a point of concern when we had a party recently with a mixture of vanilla and lifestyle friends together. One of the vanilla couples had some reservations. More the husband since when most people hear about the lifestyle they think we just get into a room, all cloths come off and…

  • Hey wanna go out, my wife doesn’t mind?

    Since we have opened up our marriage it has been humorous in some of the things that we took for granted when we were younger.  There was no internet so you had to meet people the old fashion way.  You had to actually talk to them in person.  I know how strange is that?  But seriously,…

  • Tied up in my search for meaning

    Discovering yourself is an interesting challenge.  You don’t know what it is you are looking for until you come across it.  Like most things you usually are introuduced to something new.  This has been my experience for the past few years.  As to what I have tried, well, I will try almost anything once, twice…

  • Dicks in a room

    When I was younger I frequented the local strip clubs.  Grand illusions that maybe one them hot chicks would take an interest in me beyond just making a few dollars.  Of course it never happened and you always come out poorer.  One thing that I did notice one night in a club which didn’t make…

  • Couples – Boobs, Hands, Cocks… Oh My!

    Twitter chatter has brought me back to my first group experience.  For my first with more then two couples since it is a very different dynamic since it is not just a swap.  It was a very unique and surprising experience since it was not actually planned to happen the way it did.  Let me explain.

  • The Booty Call – What does it sound like

    As you might have read in my last post restless feelings that I am on the hunt for new blood. What I didn’t mention is that I do have a few lingering fwb around still.  My wife approves of most of them but there is one that is not her favourite.  Not because she doesn’t…