Tag: experience

  • Not right now

    One thing that happens is the word “no” . It is not meant as an insult. Or even a rejection. Most times it is situational. Not right time of the month, to fast, or maybe just uncomfortable. There a multitude of reasons for the word to be said. The one factor is that it is…

  • Intimacy

    Many people don’t understand the lifestyle, or at least find it hard to grasp.  The main hangup is the sex act.  How can you fuck someone else and not love them?  Or how can you let your spouse go and fuck someone else, don’t you love them?  I think what everyone is working through is…

  • Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood

    Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood

    This lifestyle will challenge most men in one specific area.  This is because as a man that is one thing that always worked without thought.  And when it decides to disappear and not perform it can be a big shock to the man.  It also makes the man embarrassed, since the woman expect it to…

  • You let your wife do what?

    This is my raw thoughts so no editing has been done.   A smile flashes across my face as I think about what is happening about 30 mins away. Right now my wife is at a friends house about to get fucked. Why am I smiling?  Few reasons with one this is way over due. …

  • Tied up in my search for meaning

    Discovering yourself is an interesting challenge.  You don’t know what it is you are looking for until you come across it.  Like most things you usually are introuduced to something new.  This has been my experience for the past few years.  As to what I have tried, well, I will try almost anything once, twice…

  • Couples – Boobs, Hands, Cocks… Oh My!

    Twitter chatter has brought me back to my first group experience.  For my first with more then two couples since it is a very different dynamic since it is not just a swap.  It was a very unique and surprising experience since it was not actually planned to happen the way it did.  Let me explain.