Weekend has been a blur

My wife’s vanilla gf was over this weekend, which was exciting.  She knows about our lifestyle and I enjoy seeing how far I can push the context of sex.  She is a bit of a prude so it is fun to see reactions from her.  Although I didn’t have much time visit on Saturday evening since I was out.  From what Krystalla said they had a good conversation.  Mostly about sex, her sex life and other topics in that area.  Kind of wish I was around for that but doubt she would have told Krystalla anything with me around.

Well I have started talking to a girl on OkCupid.  Been a few weeks, and nothing major happened in our discussions.  She recently separated from her husband a month before so I let her fill in the details when she felt comfortable with me.  I didn’t really hear much about him until this past week.  Sounds like he wanted to get back together with her.  She didn’t feel that is what she wanted.

We didn’t talk anything about sex, although I know she did have a date recently.  This is how the husband came back into the picture, seems he heard and wanted her back.  She was confused about it and couldn’t understand why he would want to come back.  I asked simple questions and suggested my thoughts on the matter, mainly I think he was jealous.  Regardless she was hoping that he would stop asking.

While I was out seeing my ex gf last night and she texted me asking how I was doing.  She rarely starts talking, and never at this time of night.  I let her know I was out and would talk to her later when time permits.  When I was leaving I saw the message from her, and it was she was going back to her husband tomorrow.  I was a bit surprised, and quickly texted back as to what happened.  Seems they had some long talks over past few days and she is going to give it another shot.  I said I was happy for her, and wished her luck.  She advised she will be closing her account down and wanted to thank me for my support. She closed her account today, so it seems she is back with her husband.

I am glad to hear this but leaves me a bit frustrated.  Regardless of my multiple attempts to talk to woman I have had very little success.  I am not a pig and send of those cheesy pick-up lines, I try to be more personable and friendly.  This has produced no results.  Think I need to review my approach on the dating sites.  Although I did find on POF a few couples and fwb that might be an option.  I just need to figure out how to say HI.  I am not the one that easily can talk to woman, at least in the sense of picking them up.  I can read other people, their problems, and can analyse a solution.  On the other hand, I am oblivious to a woman coming on to me.  Funny how I can read someone and know their intentions but when it comes to woman hitting on me I am completely unaware.  This of course is in person, not as easy on text.

My wife’s new boy toy is moving along well.  We have a date set-up to meet them as a group so that we can get a chance to know them.  The wife is not in the lifestyle, so I am looking forward to meeting her and understanding the relationship and their dynamics.  I have talked to the wife a on text and enjoy talking to her.  Surprisingly we have similar tastes so I think the meet and greet will go good.  Also looking forward to meeting the man that my wife has been going to see over the past few weeks.  Will be good to put a face to the name.

Oh, you want to know about my ex gf I mentioned earlier? Well it was a platonic meeting, just helping her out and being supportive.  It was fun and I always enjoy seeing her.  Nothing was planned to happened but by chance there was some fun.  Lets just say that the blanket she put down was soaked when we finished.

Another work week starts so maybe I will have time to have a coffee date.