Tag: swinging
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A stab at Definitions
Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.
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Little lost
There is always a cycle of ups and downs in our lives. I am going through an extended downward spiral. Not by choice but by circumstance. Maybe because I am burying my grandfather this weekend. Maybe cause I have had majority of my fwb go off the market. Maybe since I haven’t meet anyone new…
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Door Swinging Open
Open relationship is very different then swinging. Primarily open relationships is usually alone play and swinging is a group. The differences in emotions along with the experience can make it difficult for some couples. For our relationship we started a bit backwards. We explored the open relationship and then transitioned to swinging based on circumstance.
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It was a Crappy Night
It was a rainy night, well not really. It did rain most of the day but it is cold out. They used to have the smoking area in another room but it is now moved to be outside in the cold. It does get pretty warm in the club after a bit of time, so…
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Love, Life, and the lifestyle
I haven’t had to explain my situation of late. When I do the hardest part for people to understand is why? My girlfriend wrote Why Poly? Why Not? recently regarding this and I would like to expand on it a bit too. Well more add my two cents about my thoughts and experiences.
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Firsts in my mind
We have had a lot of firsts. We have done orgy, group sex, among other things. The rule for Krystalla and myself is that we have to have done it first before it can be done with anyone else without each other. Fair rule since we want to enjoy the experience for the first time…
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Flashback – First swing
We started swinging because I was not able to find any women. The hardest part in this lifestyle is finding like minded people let alone women who understand that I am married and can fuck. Still is a battle even now. Krystalla realized how frustrating it was for me back then and she suggested swinging, to let…
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Friends First
One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle. Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique. Trust and honesty is also another factor. We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with. Actually there was another couple…
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Birthday and new friends
I swear the birthdays just don’t seem to end. Since March it seems someone always has a birth around the corner. This time it is Lexxi’s turn and Bob had made arrangements for some of their friends to come over to celebrate it. Krystalla informed me that they were friends they have met through different…
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Don’t expect it
I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page. It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much. Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…