Tag: respect

  • Escape – Female point of view of Do Not Disturb

    After Greg posted his story about our time together, I read it over and over (Do not Disturb and Guilty Goodbye).  Not just for the sensuality of the experiences, although they were fun; but because, as the months pass, my memories start to fade.  And my encounter with him was a bit of a turning point for…

  • Still learning the ropes and no not those kind

    Dating when you are single is so much simpler. If you do something it only affects you, and potentially your partner. When you enter the lifestyle, the major difference is that you have to think for yourself along with your partner. Now add another level which is more couples and you can see how it…

  • All nice guys…

    Recently it was stated to me that “All than nice guys must be polygamous.” I paused for a second and thought about that statement. The lifestyle commands respect, since everyone is there to have fun with no pressure and drama.

  • Respect is expected by the woman

    For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man.  I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities.  This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase.  Mostly because…

  • Boost – Part 3

    Kissing her again my other hands slides up her skirt and finds her soaked pussy. “I was thinking that I needed to taste you.” My mouth kisses her neck, moving lower as she leans back, anticipating my mouth meeting her pussy. I tease a nipple through her dress, fully erect so I noticed it very…

  • Culture Shock

    What I have seen in the past few months, and over the couple of years swinging, is that different cultures have different opinions on relationships. When we first started swinging we ran into our first couple that appeared to have the culture impact the dynamics.

  • Choke surprise

    Choke surprise

    Choking I only do in my jiu jitsu class. I know to perform lots of different types. Rear naked, head in arm, and the famous guillotine to name a few. I would never it do it for pleasure which is why I was caught of guard hearing my wife was choked during sex this past…

  • Men are simple creatures and shatter easily

    My question really is why are the woman not chasing the men? With the alias you are not giving away any information. You can block anyone at any time if you feel that you don’t want to talk to them.

  • Juggling all these balls is challenging

    Emotions, wives, fwb is a lot to handle.

  • Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off

    There is no rule book or guideline to read.  I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs.  This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples.  Respect and Honesty.  These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…