Tag: relationship
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Illness relationships
Never ever say that you haven’t gotten sick. Seems it will bite you in the ass. Found that out over two weeks ago. Caught strep throat somehow and luckily didn’t infect anyone I know.That was a fun ten days. Meds finished and then I catch cold. This is also during a new girl that I…
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Out of arms reach
You can’t chose who you have feelings for. It happens. This is something I have gotten used to over the past few years. The problem is that most women aren’t close by. So when you have a person who is far away and having a tough time I feel powerless. I want to help. Need…
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Sex talk
Sex is usually talked about behind closed doors. Something that is instilled by our parents when we are young. It is taboo. Shouldn’t be talked about. Heck even TV and movies didn’t show anything since it is so bad for you. Fast forward some years ahead (nice try, birthday is coming up but not going…
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Introductions to my wife
Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends. Most of these women have met my wife. As well I have met majority of their spouses. I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…
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Reflection and moving foward
It is funny how time passes. The holidays were here and gone. It went by quickly and even though we didn’t do anything to involved it still flew by. Now it’s 2016 and the new year has started. I begin my new job in a few weeks, although I suspect I will be doing training sooner.…
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Last few days went by too quick
Saturday was relaxing considering how tired we were the night before. I got up with the dogs at my usual time. We really didn’t do much Saturday. The quad and Lilly get to know each other better. Also had the photo shoot that Numbnutts promised. I didn’t watch much of it but from the pics…
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Dating Landscape
So the last new girl that I have met and been with physically is about Feb. This is a long time for me, since it is one of my little fetishes. New blood is hard to come by and lately it appears that it will be a while yet. I have reviewed the dating sites…
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Chicago weekend
There are times when I travel that I wonder if it is real. After 5 hours I am in a different city, no cell phone and heading off to my girlfriend’s house. It seems surreal, and even though I was here in January for work I still recall some of the landmarks and roads. Hard…
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Friends First
One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle. Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique. Trust and honesty is also another factor. We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with. Actually there was another couple…
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Benefits reduced
I always let the woman know that benefits are a bonus. Sure, I wish it can happen more but timing and life is a factor. The other side of the coin is how relationships change. Again I have lost benefits from one of my good friends. It is funny how things happen and even over…