Tag: poly

  • Firsts in my mind

    We have had a lot of firsts.  We have done orgy, group sex, among other things.  The rule for Krystalla and myself is that we have to have done it first before it can be done with anyone else without each other.  Fair rule since we want to enjoy the experience for the first time…

  • Friends First

    One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle.  Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique.  Trust and honesty is also another factor.  We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with.  Actually there was another couple…

  • Don’t expect it

    I would like to thank one of my followers for this suggestion from my contact page.  It is a point that I have touched on a few times over the year but really never dwell on it to much.  Communication is very important as I mentioned numerous times, but setting expectations is something that also…

  • Monday Reality

    Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend.  I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up.  The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self.  My wife was almost…

  • The good and the bad

    The hardest part in the lifestyle is how things evolve. My wife found BDSM with our poly couple. I never would have thought this would be something she is interested in.  Nor something I can do myself. Sure I have dabbled when I was younger with control.  Voice and maybe holding a girls hands down. …

  • Dr Sweets in the house

    Dr Sweets in the house

    This has also carried over into my personal life, more on the relationships that I have built. Each new girl that I meet seems to have something that they want to talk about. What they don’t know is that I am extremely good at getting people to talk about anything!

  • Respect is expected by the woman

    For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man.  I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities.  This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase.  Mostly because…

  • NYE and the cumming year

    NYE and the cumming year

    Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…

  • Getaway Weekend

    Getaway Weekend

    Weekend away with my poly wife allows me to reconnect and have some fun.

  • Giving thanks

    Three years ago my wife asked to open my marriage up. A multitude of emotions went through me for a few days. Processing what she asked and how I felt. Back than I had no one to talk to about it so I wrote. What came out of it was a few short stories about…