Tag: open relationship

  • Giving thanks

    Three years ago my wife asked to open my marriage up. A multitude of emotions went through me for a few days. Processing what she asked and how I felt. Back than I had no one to talk to about it so I wrote. What came out of it was a few short stories about…

  • Scream from the roof tops

    So I bet when you read that title you were thinking something dirty.  Like having your partner on the roof and giving it to you as your whole neighbourhood watched.  Well that is not the case although that does give me some dirty thoughts 😉  Plus I don’t think it would be the safest place…

  • Horny and no place to Fuck

    When the woman are horny at the same time, chatting on my phone, it can get maddening.  I can’t satisfy them and it gets frustrating.  Yes I have my wife to help with that, but the reason why I have fwb is to, well fuck them.  I just can’t call them over to help their…

  • Benefits and the strings that don’t exist

    friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.

  • Juggling all these balls is challenging

    Emotions, wives, fwb is a lot to handle.

  • Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off

    There is no rule book or guideline to read.  I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs.  This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples.  Respect and Honesty.  These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…

  • Friends first sex later

    The misconception of the life style is that we go out and fuck. As much fun that can be the older you get the less appealing it becomes. Like I mentioned earlier every couple follows their own path. Sure, once in a blue moon it might be fun but the one thing that we really…

  • The work place and sex is complicated

    Having been in in the lifestyle for two and half years and still going does not make me an expert.  We have learnt a lot from our mistakes and miscommunication.  Since some of my friends confide in me it has exposed me to questions that are raised.  The one question that came up recently, and also…

  • NRE is real and better than alcohol

    Three days. It took three days and it was all a blur. My new girl who I will call Red took me a New Relationship Energy (NRE) high.  This is the feeling of someone new. Exciting. Thrilling. Intoxicating. Every new girl I have meet this happens to me and it can also blind judgement. Normally…