Birthday and new friends

I swear the birthdays just don’t seem to end. Since March it seems someone always has a birth around the corner. This time it is Lexxi’s turn and Bob had made arrangements for some of their friends to come over to celebrate it.

Krystalla informed me that they were friends they have met through different meet ups in local area. I have heard about them during our chats about the meet ups and what they experienced at them. I was a little excited. Well more than a little.  Meeting like mind people in the lifestyle is a lot of fun. Plus you get to hear about other experiences. Continue reading Birthday and new friends

Monday Reality

Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend.  I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up.  The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self.  My wife was almost giddy at the whole experience beaming whenever Lilly and me were together.  She knows how strong Lilly and myself connected and can see it.

Our last night together I sent my wife off to see her boytoy.  It was for a couple of reasons, with one they invited her and two that they placed an order for beer at our local distillery.  After the order was paid for I told her that there is a delivery fee.   Continue reading Monday Reality

To my wives…

This is the follow up to the Guilty Goodbye, since I made one critical mistake.  When I arranged to meet Lilly on the Friday before I went home, I didn’t advise either of my wives of the rendezvous.  We have an open relationship and tell each other everything.  I left this detail out, and even when I did have an option to tell them I got scared.  If you read the story I think you can get the sense on how all over the place I was.  That day was long and I really did have a lot of emotions going through me.  Seeing my wife after 11 days was the longest we have been apart.  Not to mention the NRE.  This not an excuse, but it trying to understand my mindset that day, which to be fair was not thinking clearly.Now you are probably thinking, “How can you be scared?” Continue reading To my wives…

Dr Sweets in the house

It is in my nature to help.  Probably why I am in the role that I can’t seem to get out of at work.  Just who I am I guess, been doing it for so long that it is second nature to me.

This has also carried over into my personal life, more on the relationships that I have built.  Each new girl that I meet seems to have something that they want to talk about.  What they don’t know is that I am extremely good at getting people to talk about anything! Continue reading Dr Sweets in the house

Respect is expected by the woman

For those of you that know me I am a very respectful and patient man.  I always respect the woman’s wishes and because of that I have usually missed golden opportunities.  This was not always the case when I was younger, and just after my college years I went through a selfish phase.  Mostly because of failed relationships, I became the hunter looking for any woman I can fuck.   Continue reading Respect is expected by the woman


Many people don’t understand the lifestyle, or at least find it hard to grasp.  The main hangup is the sex act.  How can you fuck someone else and not love them?  Or how can you let your spouse go and fuck someone else, don’t you love them?  I think what everyone is working through is how intimate the act is.  Sex can be intimate, but also just sex.  Pleasure with no regret on cumming, fucking, sucking or any other act you do.  Now what about after sex?  Is there intimacy beyond the sex act?

The definition of intimacy is: a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.  Continue reading Intimacy

NYE and the cumming year

Another year has come and past.  The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with.  Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all.  If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a double life in that I have a poly wife, a couple of fwb that I see once a quarter if I am lucky, and how my wife has opened up to the BDSM side of things I would have said “You are full of shit!”

I really have not expected how things have evolved this year.  Our quad has started to balance out the past few months. Continue reading NYE and the cumming year

Directions to sex


This based loosely on real events. I have changed any names or places to protect the people who are in this story. This contains sexually explicit content so please stop reading if you are under the appropriate age for where you live.  For those of you who are old enough enjoy!!!

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Monday Winter Fun

My weekend alone with my poly wife was great.  We relaxed, fucked and talked a lot.  It allowed us to reconnect, since this past year has been a roller coaster, with emotions and some drama.  With the weekend we were able to just be together, no dogs or spouses and because of that I think we connected more than we have been since the spring.  It was great weekend and both wives new I had Monday off.  Fortunately one of the other girls I was talking too was available to come over.

I haven’t had any new meat in a while.  Actually have been dry for past few months, not for lack of trying, so this is the first time in a while that I get to taste and explore some fresh blood.  By chance a woman who has wanted to come for a while is available.  I informed my wives of the plan to fuck her they were actually little excited for me. Not that they aren’t normally, but I always want to make sure they are okay with my encounters. Continue reading Monday Winter Fun